crazyb0i
October 21st, 2004, 09:58 PM
Ok, heres the deal. I met this girl about a month ago through a friend. I had to im her to tell her something for my friend and out of no where she starts asking me if im hot and single and stuff like that. After we talked for a bit she invited me to go hang out with her, my friend, and a couple other people. I went, but she didn't seem very interested and didn't seem to have a good time. Later online she asks if i liked her, i told her i thought she was nice and everything but didn't say much else cause i still thought she wasn't interested. Later i talked to my friend and found out she liked me but she had a boyfriend. I figured i interpreted it wrong and gave up. Couple of days later i find out she dumped him because she wants to be with me. I ended up asking her out online(bad, i know) because my friend told me to do it right away(cause she broke up for me). Then we hung out again but it was all weird because she wanted to go faster than me with the cuddling and kissing and stuff. A couple of days later she calls me and says we have to break up because i'm too good for her and shes done some fucked up things or something. I wasn't really all too attached yet so i acted sort of indifferently. I asked if there was anything she wanted me to do, she said no so i just said ok and goodbye. 3 weeks go by, she starts IMing me online. We talk for a few days and i find out she went out with another guy for like a week after we broke up but she dumped him. We got to talking about what happened and i told her i had no idea, that i wanted it to work and i liked her but there was nothing i could do. She said she really liked me and asked if there was any possibility for a second chance. I agreed. I asked for her homeroom so i could talk to her in school. She seemed puzzled as to why i wanted to see her but gave it to me anyway. The next day i went to find her but i forgot the number. I tried calling her house but i got her parents and they told me she was grounded and couldn't talk on the phone. I couldn't find her for a week, searched around whole first floor where i thought it was. After this i figured she wasn't interested and was just brushing me off so i forget about it. That weekend i hang out with the friend we both have. Some other friend that was there asked me if i still liked this girl. I told her that i did and she said that she was asking because the girl i like asked her to. So i think, great, she does like me. Next week i see her on tuesday in the morning but i find her a couple of minutes before the bell is about to ring for first period. She says hello and then says she has to go because she has ISS. Then a guy from the group she was walking with says something like, "Yeah, she may have ISS everyday this week" and laughs. Then they all walk away. So, again, i'm confused. I was busy the next day so i couldn't look for her. The morning after i got to school early and found her with a friend. I asked her if we could talk alone so she sent her friend away. I asked her what was going on between us, she asked me what i meant, i asked her if she still wanted to get together to hang out. She said that she did and asked if i could hang out saturday, i said i was busy and asked about sunday, she said she wasn't sure. So i asked about the grounding thing and she said she could talk on the phone and comp on wensdays, fridays, and saturdays. I told her i'd call her that night. I tried calling her at 7, 8, and then at 9 she goes online. I say hi, she says hi, she signs off. She goes back on in 20 minutes and tells me her internet went out and then signs off again. I tried calling her right after she signs off and no one picked up. Today i looked for her but couldn't find her.
So now the question is, whats going on. I asked her if she was sure she wanted to give it a second try when she asked me and she told me the only reason she broke up with me was because she didn't think she was good enough and didn't wanna get hurt and i didn't seem interested in her when we hung out. I just don't know what i should do. I've made a couple of efforts to see her but i feel like shes not interested. But she seems to think im not interested in her. I just don't know... Any comments on the girl, or what i should do, or what i should not do. Thanks.
So now the question is, whats going on. I asked her if she was sure she wanted to give it a second try when she asked me and she told me the only reason she broke up with me was because she didn't think she was good enough and didn't wanna get hurt and i didn't seem interested in her when we hung out. I just don't know what i should do. I've made a couple of efforts to see her but i feel like shes not interested. But she seems to think im not interested in her. I just don't know... Any comments on the girl, or what i should do, or what i should not do. Thanks.