hopeless_romantic
October 8th, 2004, 01:01 AM
Ok, I'm a college sophomore and there is this freshman in my dorm who all the girls are after, including me. I haven't been this lustful after anybody in a very very long time. To me, he is the ideal man- he's soo hot, and he has an excellent personality.
I don't really know what to do, because he is so friendly to everybody (guys and girls, not just me), so I don't know if he's just acting like a friend to me, or if he likes me, or what.
Well, Monday, I was talking to him and we decided we'd have a group movie night Tuesday night. He said he might end up falling asleep in my room and asked if it would be ok if he crashed in there since he had to wake up at 4 am Wed. morning. I agreed, but found it a little odd considering he lives in the same building...
So, Tuesday we had movie night...it was me, him, and a mutual friend. He was dressed more nicely than usual- in a sweater (its not sweater weather yet in Alabama). He wanted to watch the movie on my bed, but I told him that I would share the bed with him (hoping he'd take my bait!) but that I wasn't going to give it up. He said something like "oh no, we aren't sharing any bed..That'd be bad". So we watched the movie and about 20 min before it was over, he left. He finally came back after the movie was over, and after my friend left. And then he was like "hey, do you have an alarm?" I said ya, but then he said he was gonna go upstairs and grab his watch alarm. Thinking he needed it to wake up, I asked him "are u spending the night?" and he said "NO, oh no, I'm NOT spending the night" and then I was like "well why do you need an alarm clock?" He didn't answer my question and was like "you know what, I think I'm just gonna leave...is that ok? I'm gonna go talk to so and so...you can come if u want".
I've run into him several times Wednesday and today, and he's still been saying "hey, whats up" whenever he sees me, even if my back is to him and I don't see him. But like I said, he's really outgoing, and constantly surrounded by girls, so I don't know if that's just the way he is or if there is something there. Any ideas on where to go from here?? I'm really dying to make out with him, but I don't want it to be a one time thing and have him to go tell everyone in our dorm about it...
I don't really know what to do, because he is so friendly to everybody (guys and girls, not just me), so I don't know if he's just acting like a friend to me, or if he likes me, or what.
Well, Monday, I was talking to him and we decided we'd have a group movie night Tuesday night. He said he might end up falling asleep in my room and asked if it would be ok if he crashed in there since he had to wake up at 4 am Wed. morning. I agreed, but found it a little odd considering he lives in the same building...
So, Tuesday we had movie night...it was me, him, and a mutual friend. He was dressed more nicely than usual- in a sweater (its not sweater weather yet in Alabama). He wanted to watch the movie on my bed, but I told him that I would share the bed with him (hoping he'd take my bait!) but that I wasn't going to give it up. He said something like "oh no, we aren't sharing any bed..That'd be bad". So we watched the movie and about 20 min before it was over, he left. He finally came back after the movie was over, and after my friend left. And then he was like "hey, do you have an alarm?" I said ya, but then he said he was gonna go upstairs and grab his watch alarm. Thinking he needed it to wake up, I asked him "are u spending the night?" and he said "NO, oh no, I'm NOT spending the night" and then I was like "well why do you need an alarm clock?" He didn't answer my question and was like "you know what, I think I'm just gonna leave...is that ok? I'm gonna go talk to so and so...you can come if u want".
I've run into him several times Wednesday and today, and he's still been saying "hey, whats up" whenever he sees me, even if my back is to him and I don't see him. But like I said, he's really outgoing, and constantly surrounded by girls, so I don't know if that's just the way he is or if there is something there. Any ideas on where to go from here?? I'm really dying to make out with him, but I don't want it to be a one time thing and have him to go tell everyone in our dorm about it...