help w/ girl who is flirting...

[JerseyBoy]

so yeah this ISNT teh girl who i mentioned in my 'oral' question. this is an old flame who has recently come back into my life. i'm curious if she likes me or not. tonite on teh phone she asked if i wear cologne, and i replied w/ a 'no', she said i should wear some. i ask 'why'? she says because she is attracted to guys who wear cologne. later on in our convo she mentions how things aren't going well w/ her b/f and that she is about to end things.

does it sound like she is trying to hint at something?

[newlysingle]

*sigh* -_- another JerseyBoy post about some girl that talked to him...

[Fun Lovin' Criminal]

So I was talking to this girl on the phone and yeah she um said goodbye to me kinda differently than normal like, do you think she wants to marry me Um?

God you're annoying.

[vampbarbie]

No it doesn't sound like she's hinting at ANYTHING.

I might tell my guy friends that a certain aftershave would be great for them...doesn't mean I'll date them!

[meeso]

I think you should probably just stick with learning how to eat out your other girl before trying to decide if some girl has the hots for you.

How old are you? Your typing suggests 3, however if you are having sex at 3, there's a problem with that.

You KNOW people critique grammar and spelling skills on here, and yet people insist on looking like an idiot.. I don't get it.

[JerseyBoy]

criminal: if i'm that annying, dont open my posts , and waste your time responding 2 them.


vamp: fair enough, but me and this girl used to go out, so maybe i'm reaching, but i'm guessing she is hinting. 50/50

[StrayDog]

She may or may not be hinting at something. The details presented in the post is sparse at best; no educated guesses can be made.

Anyway, here's a stab in the dark and a warning at the same time:

It's easy to assume that just because someone confided to me their relationship problems, this automatically means that I'm the next in line.
It could be something as simple as her being in distress, and you being the next available shoulder to cry on. It happens all the time, especially when you're dealing with someone with low self esteem - always fishing for comments, praise, and soothing words. You're being used for ego boost... although I wouldn't put it that harshly - that's just unfair to her.

We all do it. I for one have just done it recently.
If anything, it could just have been small talk.

[ittakessome]

no, it does not sound like she is "hinting" at anything. and if she was....what are you going to do? see, jersey, this is why you have so many girl problems. you have a girl at the moment, so why are you talking to another? why are you analyzing the possibility that she my be hinting at something? youre never going to get anywhere when you pull shit like this.

[JerseyBoy]

well the afore mentioned girl i have only gone out w/ 2 times, and theres is DEFINATELY NO relationship established, just casual dating at best. so i think i'm allowed to play the field, no?

[ittakessome]

what are you trying to accomplish? honestly!? ive always stood up for you and tried to understand you and what you think and blah blah blah. but now i see that you are just completely incompetent. come on!!! you are here every two days with another story for us to give you advice for and another situation you us to analyze. if you want to be a player, then stop asking for advice. thats it, i'm done responding to you and helping you with girls.

[JerseyBoy]

i'm not a player. just not in a relationship.

[Anthropolemic]

While I'm very tempted to just close this to make an example of posting in the wrong forum, I'll still move it to Flirting. Flirting is in the TITLE OF THE THREAD, why put it in dating?