How to turn on a girl with a backrub??GIRLS POVS PLEASE!!!!!

[Infintelove]

Where and what do I do??I want to make her horny..I need girls advice on this!!!!!!!!!!

[zoe]

With a backrub?

Take her shirt off, have her lay on her stomach on the bed, take your shirt off (so you're even :cool3:), straddle her (don't squish her haha), and give her a backrub. You could always use massage oils (I've heard the ones you can get at Spencers Gifts are good), or kiss her body while you're doing it.

These tips thanks to help from my friend Andrea.. who I was luckily talking to at the time I was reading your post, haha.

[stace]

i dunno i get that way even from anything with my guy now, but i do make him take my shirt off me, but i also skip my bra too, but that's me, but i also make him have his shirts off too, it is zoe said so it's fair :devious: , but just havin his hands on me feels nice so just take your time and enjoy it.

[rcwant2be]

Where and what do I do??I want to make her horny..I need girls advice on this!!!!!!!!!!

the last really good back rub i had actually put me to sleep, rather than turning me on, so my advice might not be the best. but imagine tho, being massaged to sleep. ahhh, i could use another one of those. i think the key to turning her on would probably be the massage oil. pick a good scent, or even have her help you pick it out. & then, just follow the other girls advice, shirtless etc.

[kewlgal99]

throw in some kisses or light licks on her back. oooooh (shudder-in a good way)

[kuju]

back rubs don't tend to turn me on either... they just relax me. only if they're "front rubs" do they get interesting.

[Barefoot Matt]

Unless she's into that kinky sadomasochism stuff, be gentle. Don't press hard enough that it hurts. Take off shirt and bra, start with the lower back, and work your way up the back and up to the back of her head. If you have the time, you could even try a full body massage.

[hunny]

Well a 'back rub' might not make her horny, exactly. But the advice zoe gave about taking off her shirt and straddling her sounds interesting. At the very least it might spark other, more intimate contact.
Do it because you like her and want to make her feel good in general, not because you expect a back rub to get her to open her legs.
Don't be pushy or intimidating...... and make sure you smell really good...

[*after8*]

hmm... try this.
have her sitting down on the bed, and kinda get behind her so shes sitting between your legs. help her take off her shirt, and then you can take off her bra.. slowly off course, and slide it off her etc.
then, you can start massaging her back, paying attention to her shoulders and her neck, maybe running your hands up her neck and thro her hair alittle. breathing onto/into her neck/shoulders feels AMAZING. so does little kisses, and possibly a lick or two.. try wrapping your arms all the way around her, pulling her close, and whispering something into her ear.. press up against her.. *shrugs*
if shes ticklish on her sides, try lightly tickling her alittle, or maybe running the tips of your fingers down her arms..

i know its alittle more than just a massage, but im shore that'll get the results you're looking for ;)

(oh and like the others sayd, oils -- try those ones that heat up when they're blown on/rubbed -- can b fun too)

[Ms.Monroe]

I like when guys touch the small of my back. As mentioned before, kisses are good too. Oh, and also it feels good when the sides of my torso are rubbed lightly, use the tip of ur hands, it's guarenteed to send chills up your girls spine!

[Deidre]

I want to emphasise what rcwant2be said about falling asleep.
If the girl is tensed, then the relaxation can allow her to feel aroused, but it's also likely to make her slower and more tired.

I don't have any real experience massaging girls, but I massaged my ex a million times (my boyfriend wont let me :cry:). It just made him really relaxed and in a mood to sleep.

Of course, bare skin is halfway there and that might help.

[kuju]

a technique that I LOVE when done on me, and love doing to others is what I call trickles.

you VERY LIGHTLY run your fingertips over the person's back and arms... almost so that you're not touching them... only the little hairs. blowing cool air on the skin is good too. it gives them shivers sometimes and goosebumps, but it's a pleasant feeling. then, when they're all shivery, you give them heat with your hands by massaging properly, releasing the tension you just created. it's VERY relaxing when that happens.

[Dreamer]

If you can, Firstly, set the ambience of the room, dimmed lighting is good, and get an oil burner and burn sandlewood or patchouli oil - just enough to create a light fragrance, not to choke you both. (you can get cheap insense sticks or small aromatherapy bottles, just use a couple of drops).

Sit on your knees and have her lay down on her stomach, with her head resting on your lap. Stroke her head and neck with one hand a couple of times as you use the other to rub her back.

you VERY LIGHTLY run your fingertips over the person's back and arms... almost so that you're not touching them... only the little hairs.

That's a good technique, but vary it too - harder strokes (not too hard) using your palms moving up and down next to the spine.

After you do this for a while, gently take her head and move a pillow/cushion (have one close by) underneath it as you move away. Then straddle her and work from her shoulders down, then back up again.

Using your thumbs in circular motions is good too.

[Prism]

backrubs and massages tend to relax me too, but you can make almost anything a turn on sometimes. alot of the advice on the thread sounds good already, and is proally gonna be the same as mine (espically what after8 said), but i'll post anyways ;)

what i'd suggest is maybe getting her to lay down and darken the room, then light candles if you have them. take off her shirt and bra (and your shirt too :P), then straddle her (i think you can go just below her butt). Start with giving her a massage on her shoulders, then you can move to along her spine (i dunno, i just think that feels REALLY good). You can also massage her lower back, like RIGHT above her butt. Also, lightly running your fingers along her back should feel really good. It's always good to kiss her body and her neck while you're doing this, and licking the neck is a good thing too :P You can also wrap your arms around her and hug her to you, so you get that skin-to-skin contact, and while you're doing this (or while you're massaging) you can whisper things to her. Oh, and kissing the shoulders while you're giving her the massage/back rub is really nice :P

[ShRt SwEEt*n*SexY]

well i think the sexiest massages are the ones that start out totally innocent. so you know just slide her shirt up and unhook her bra, then start at the very lower back and rub gently and work out any knots you come by, occasionally throwing in a kiss wherever. then rubb the shoulders and kiss her neck, and if you see that she's enjoying it slide her shirt off, then gently run your hands down her back and sides( thats what drives me nuts) then gently put your hands underneath her hold her close and if she's ok w/ it slider her bra off and rub her breasts while lying on top of her. it's givin me the chills just thinkin about it!

[Jin]

bieng a liscenced massage therapist I might have some input here.. :wink:

like everyone above has said.... deep, nuro-muscular massagewill relaxe her and slow down her heart rate and make her feel sleepy...

use long sweeping strokes with a light touch... you want to arouse the nerves in the skin... pay partiucular attention to the small of the back ( it will get blood circulating in the pelvic region) and the muscles along her upper spine and neck.... also don't forget the scalp... run your fingers through her hair and gently pull at it....

one stroke that always works is the upper body sweep.... straddle your partner and starting at the base of her spine, run your hands up the sides of her spine column... when you reach the base of the neck....go over the shoulders and follow the trapezius down and flow to the sides of her body... returning your hands to the base of her back...

keep a regular rythm and pressure.... repeat 10-15 strokes...

you can use this move on any part of the body.... arms, legs, hands, even the face.... always run your hands toward the heart when doing circulation strokes.... this will open up all the blood vessels and capillaries.... it produces whats called called the fluid-release effect, when all the toxins and crap uin the muscles is washwed away and heart rate ansd blood-pressure all go down.... which causes the relaxing feeling...

enjoy... :wink:

Jin

[goofball]

hard and slow