women problems

[KMFDM]

hey people
I met this girl at a club she came up to me started talking
to me etc, we spent most of the night together we spoke
about all kinds of things i got her number then she left,
the next day few days she non stops msges me saying she
wants to meet up, so i meet up with her again at her house
and she seemed figity then she tells me that she jus broke
up with her b'f 2 weeks ago and its not really a good time,
she tells me that she still likes me im pissed off and leave
i c her again a few time a give her the cold shoulder, i
would c her out at clubs she would dance right next to me
but id still ignore her. thenshe tells my friend that "she'd
wish i spoke to her" im not sure what to do i really like
her i dont know if she is now ready for a relationship and
that why she wants to talk to me can u help me out cheers

[Sovereign]

Well, since she asked to meet up with you and all that would strike me as odd, but maybe she brought up the whole ex boyfriend thing because she thought' you'd try convince her to be your girl.

[Really_Mike]

Hey, maybe she's just trying to get over her ex and move on, at least she had the honisty to tell you she just broke up with her ex, im sure she must have thought of what you might think if she told you that.

i think you over reacted by leaving, by the sounds of it she must like you enough to be consistant and honist, you say you like her so maybe something good can happen.

[vampbarbie]

I think you are being a bit of an ass. She told you the truth, didn't string you along. It is perfectly conceivable that she realised things were moving too fast and didn't want to lead you on as a rebound thing because she thought you were a nice guy.

It doesn't sound like you care one bit about this girl. Because if you really did enough to want to have a relationship then you wouldn't be ignoring her in this childish fashion. Sounds like she's better off without all this hassle.

[IGemini]

Saying she's not interested in dating does not mean that she still can't pursue friendship. Choosing not to talk because of the breakup says you're selfish and interested only in dating her. I suggest you open the communication again.