does he like me

[prsawyer]

i met this guy where i go to college and were both shy and close in age. he appraoched me first and went out of his way to get me to notice him. the problem is i hardley see him except occassionally on campus. but when were both alone and see each other this guy will speak and flirt by smiling winking with his face all lit up he has ask me questions like if i'm married or have a boyfriend. but if me and this guy and his friends or mine , even a large crowd of people are around this guy gets really shy and nervous but he will stare at me but will not appraoch me. i know that we both have different schedules for work and school so neither of us have much free time except for studying. and i do not want to bother him when i see him studying and he does the same for me . we both show consideration and respect for each other. i just do not know how interested he is cause i ask him once to lunch he said yes but we never got to go he needed to be out of town to see his family but he appologize to me. do you think he likes me as a friend or more than just friends.

[AbnormalBob]

Ask him to lunch again, and play it from there. There's no sure fire way to know, just because he is asking you certain questions. But, it's something to definately look into. Who knows what can happen, just ask him to lunch again.

[ittakessome]

he is obviously interested in you for some reason. whether it is friendship or romance. i agree, see if another lunch could be arranged and if yes, see what happens. and if his intention wasnt a relationship, who couldnt use another friend?

[prsawyer]

if i see him on campus being a new semester and his friend are not around i will try making a attempt by asking him to lunch or even coffee. but the problem is when i do see him either me or this guy see each other in passing we really get to say hello. maybe i could ask him thru schools email and see what happens.

[KissTheKimmie]

I think he definitely likes you in some form or another. It makes sense that he doesn't really talk or flirt with you in from of his friends. Most people do that privately anyway. I think if your trully interested in the guy then you should go say hi to him when he is around other people. That's a way to find out more too. He might blow you off infront of them, and that might mean he is just a flirt. Or he might genuinely like it and it will open up a way for you all to talk more.

I'm pretty sure your not even remotely an aggressive girl, but maybe it would do you both some good if you get up the courage and just really ask him out, or to hang out, or whatever.

[99redroses]

yeah, ask him again about the lunch. or if you're bold you can be like "so there's this movie i wanna see, but i have no one to go with..." :P

[mini696]

He sounds interested to me. Social rejection is a major issue for everybody, and maybe thats why he's having trouble talking or being his natural self when his friends are around. Ask him again.