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[Miller]

Just wondering about what some other people thought of this:

I know this girl at work 'Amy', and I see her every now and then, though not enough b/c she's on another floor. Always thought she was great looking and super happy. I finally had the chance to talk to her a couple of times and even make her laugh a time or 2. I always thought that she was way too nice to me to be simply 'nice'.

Now, after working with her during a 6am shift i thought I'd try something. So during lunch I go to her section and manage to (surprise) stumble into her while she's counting receipts. I get to talk to her for a couple of minutes and then pull out these lines:

Miller - "How's your schedule, you have any fun fun 6am wakeup shifts coming up soon?"
Amy - "No, I gotta change my schedule for school, I hate those shifts."
M- "Aw shit, thats a shame, I was hoping to get you to come out for a 530 prework coffee with me."
A- "Oh haha, yeah I really hate those shifts."

At this point I kindo of stop and am not sure what to say. People start to walk through the room anyway so our privacy is sort of broken up. SHe mentions something eles about school and coninues counting at which point I smile and blurt out:

"NExt time I catch you trying to get one of those early shifts I'm coming at you for that coffee."

She laughs and then the conversation is done.

End scene.

So....I'm not sure whether I was too subtle? Was that a friendly no? When I told my roomate he said she might have assumed that the 530 am coffee comment implies sex too directly, which it didn't at all.

Just wondering what you guys think :cool3:

[vampbarbie]

Doesn't sound like she was too into that idea. Where she goes "Oh haha, yeah I really hate those shifts." she is changing the subject. Probably to avoid saying no directly. I wouldn't hold out much hope.

[KissTheKimmie]

mm... I don't know. Maybe she is just shy. Hell man, get some balls. If you want to ask the girl out just do it. Either way you'll have an answer and you wont be wondering about it the way you are.

[*after8*]

who knows man, its hard to say.
GOD KNOWS i would NOT go for a 530 coffee date, regardless of how much i liked the guy -- mornings are just not kule over here for me.
and obvioously they're not for her either -- if shes repeating that she 'hates those shifts' so much.
*shrugs*
it wasnt the ideal 'date' to ask.. i say you try again, something else this time, cose that was WAY too casual and too early :P
whats the worst that could happen? she says no and you can move onto someone else. its better than wondering 'what if'.

[IGemini]

I can sum up wisdom in three words:

pick another time.