how to pick up a girl at abar?

[JerseyBoy]

me and my buddies go to bars once or twice a week, and always see pretty college girls.... to the females: what is a good way to approach you at a bar?

[BurningMonkey]

"Hey, my name is Chris" has always worked for me.

It might not be the best choice for you though, the odds of you having the same name as me are pretty slim.

[SoSweetAngel]

Most girls who go to bars are aware that guys are probably going to try it on with them.... so don't be surprised if you get shot down a few times.

Asking for a light if you smoke is a good one, assuming that you're a smoker and they are too. Then you can whinge about what a pain it is not to have one.

Commenting on the surroundings is fine in my book too. Like, you're at the bar. "It's busy here tonight", or perhaps commenting on their choice of drink.

Like I said, they'll be expecting this kind of thing, but I for one would NEVER start talking to a guy who used a cheesy chat up line on me.

[JerseyBoy]

a) i dont go to bars for a 1 night stand or anything like that. i go because i wanna meet a cool girl. by going to bars, im assuring myself that the girls i do speak w/ are 21 or over, i hate 17 year old girls who look 21 flirting w/ me, it serves me no good.

B) being that you are a girl, what kinda thing would a guy say to you, that you WOULD start talking to him?????

[vampbarbie]

First you gotta make eye contact with a girl. If she looks away straight away then you're onto a loser. Then smile at her. Go up to the bar when she does, say hi I'm...then ask her name. if its at a college bar ask what she's studying etc. But be sincere in what you ask.