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joe
August 13th, 2004, 10:50 PM
riding my bike today in the beach and park i saw so many white men asian women couples -holding hands, kissing .... i saw like 2 am/wf and they AM was the darker kind of aisan-pinoy or something like that.
do wf like AM or not b/c i never see any. i am a AM who is attracted to WF but are they into us. hmmm if u see me a good looking AM with a hot WF maybe some WM might get jealous and beat me up u think that would happen. or make dirty comments.
all i now is any AM been with WF and where did u meet. u see any AM pick up WF from bars and are the AM successful at it.
man i also need freinds too .

Shocka
August 14th, 2004, 01:08 AM
uh, I think we should let toychoke answer this one. His million and one words are just as incoherant as this stutter, it's a match made in heaven!

Take it away, chump!

hunny
August 14th, 2004, 01:23 AM
:wtf:

wtf

huh?

Deidre
August 14th, 2004, 03:29 AM
It would help significantly if you didn't make up your own abbrevations and expect people to understand them.

Also, using question marks on questions, silent K's, and question-words will make it a lot more comprehensible.


That said, I haven't seen many AM (Asian Male?) and WF (White Female?) couples, but then again we don't have a lot of asians at all around here. My ex is from Libanon (and I've seen many couples like that), which is technically Asia, but eh... I doubt that's what you mean. Eh... my old classmate, Karl, was half Filipino (raised there, though) and he had white girlfriends. That's the only [half-]"asian" I've known to date at all.

I don't see the WM (While Male?) and AF (Asian Female) couples either.

KissTheKimmie
August 14th, 2004, 11:09 AM
shocka, tisk tisk, your bitter attitude towards choke is becoming very childish...

ANYWAY to the point of the post. Which oddly, I understood.

I'm white
<~~~~ as you can see.
And my boyfriend is Asian. Now I'm not sure if it is because of being with him, or if I had a tendency towards it to begin with, but I do find some other Asian men I see attractive. Usually, I can tell that they are mixed with another race though. Because of height and body structure.

joe
August 14th, 2004, 03:48 PM
Originally posted by KissTheKimmie@Aug 14 2004, 02:09 PM
shocka, tisk tisk, your bitter attitude towards choke is becoming very childish...

ANYWAY to the point of the post. Which oddly, I understood.

I'm white
<~~~~ as you can see.
And my boyfriend is Asian. Now I'm not sure if it is because of being with him, or if I had a tendency towards it to begin with, but I do find some other Asian men I see attractive. Usually, I can tell that they are mixed with another race though. Because of height and body structure.
body structure what do u mean? u mean us aisan guy are usually skinny and whtie guy usually stockier.

Truth
August 15th, 2004, 04:13 PM
Originally posted by joe@Aug 14 2004, 10:48 AM
body structure what do u mean? u mean us aisan guy are usually skinny and whtie guy usually stockier.
okay... that's the most stupidest thing i've ever read

KissTheKimmie
August 16th, 2004, 10:03 AM
okay... that's the most stupidest thing i've ever read

Okay, so I hope you said "most stupidest" on purpose... :confused:


body structure what do u mean? u mean us aisan guy are usually skinny and whtie guy usually stockier.

Well no... I mean that I am usually attracted to a person based on their personal physical attributes . I'm 5'4 and girls tend to be more attracted to guys that are taller then them. Therefore, I would probably be more likely to be attracted to a taller asian then one that is shorter then me. That's the same with a white guy or a black guy. It doesn't matter. My boyfriend is Asain, but he is 5'10, and about 230 pounds which is all muscle. You don't see that with a lot of asian guys, but I wasn't calling all of you skinny.

toychoke
August 16th, 2004, 11:44 AM
For the most part just go for what you're attracted to. Especially if you're in America. Some girls may not date you based on race, but in the end wouldn't you not care about their opinions anyways.

But don't limit yourself to just dating one type of girl. Me personally, I'm attracted to redheads, and girls with glasses more than anything else. But it doesn't mean that I limit myself to that. It's more just if given two girls that were the same based on personality and intelligence. I'd take the one that was red headed and had glasses over the other =P

America is a place were you can see the reminents of racism all around you, but you need not feel like they will or should hold you back.

Hope that works for yah Shocka =P

lilsweetie
September 13th, 2004, 04:24 PM
i am one of those "asian women dating a white male"
i think it's just because i was born/raised in canada, so i'm white washed i suppose you could say. i think it's the same with other asians raised in a western country. b/c i know a lot of white women, a lot of my friends, do not like the super-asian guys, with the dyed blonde hair, really not very well built, kinda scrawny, longish shaggy "pointy" hair, etc. they just dont seem attracted to that, but i know lot sof them who are attracted to the muscular, more "white washed' asian guys. hopefull that helps some.

PinoyOfSummer
September 15th, 2004, 08:01 PM
I am an Asian male who had a white girlfriend. Unfortunately, she didn't know that I was Asian until after we started going out. I'm a pretty dark Filipino, so she actually thought that I was Mexican or Hispanic. I doubt it would have made a difference if she knew of my Asian background before we got together.

I will say this though: Asian men, even Asian-American men, are at a huge disadvantage when it comes to dating white women. The stereotype of Asian males as timid and weak is a hard one to shake, unless your name is Jet Li. Your chances of scoring with a white female increase if you are a twinkie/banana only because, chances are, they can possibly relate to you somewhat. You also need to carry yourself opposite the Asian stereotype. This means walking with a good posture (leading with your hips not your chest), and even possibly having a certain swagger. All girls (and guys) notice this and will have the impression of you as someone proud and not caring what anyone else thinks.

I'm not sure how old you are, but you should look at other women besides white ones. I once only wanted to date white girls and possibly Hispanic ones, but college has definitely opened me up to have interest in Asian girls and even Indian girls. A hot girl is a hot girl.

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September 16th, 2004, 05:44 PM
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September 16th, 2004, 11:06 PM
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