Help!! Is this okay???

[ckgirl]

[/b]Ok, there's going to be a dance coming up and I kind of want to kiss this guy because I know he'll be there and he's expecting to see me there. But I've been reading some other threads and people said that it is disrespectful or unromantic to kiss around other people.
What should I do??????? I thought it would be romantic because it would be in a darkened room and other people make out at dances anyway..... Should I kiss him at the dance anyway?? Please help!!!

[sweet-one]

If you want to kiss him, then do it! Don't worry about what other people think. During a dance, preferably a slow dance, it's sometimes appropriate for a couple to kiss. It's romantic and it's sweet. Not to mention fun! :wink: It's not nice to "make-out" in front of others though. It's disgusting and can be hazardous on the stomach's of many people including myself. So be kind, just use light sweet kisses when you're in public. Save the heavy stuff for when you're alone. :cool3:

[a_real_man]

just dont grind all night, 1) people are totally annoyed by it and 2) most school dont allow it

[zoe]

Make sure that you're in the corner of the room, as to be as unseen as possible, to prevent you from getting in trouble from your school and/or a bad rep. A couple small kisses is ok.. what we've mostly been talking about as disrespectful is full-blown making out in front of everyone. Don't do that. But if you want to give him a nice kiss, I say go for it, as long as you take the precautions as to not get in trouble. And if that's impossible.. save it for later!

[Minimus]

Well, go for it, by if you do go to kiss him, make it a small kiss, and if he likes it and kisses back, you could hint to leaving the danceroom to a more private place for more advanced kissin if ya want. Just make sure not to makeout in front of everyone.

[ckgirl]

Thank you soooo much guys!! I really appreciate all the help and I will try your advice!!! :D :)

[SweetiePie]

I think its alright... during a SLOW dance. Do not do it right by your friends, drag your dance partner to a corner or area where not many people are around you. And please, no kissing that lasts the WHOLE song, its not fun to watch..

[Madeku]

OR after a slow dance.. dont let go of him, and move in to kiss him. i did this once w/ a girl i was dating.. I think its really romantic. i think the guy would like it if you did the same thing

[hunnybunz]

Who cares what other people will think? As long as you two arent like f**king in public no one should say anything. When the mood is right just lean in and do it if he doesnt kiss you first. Just make it a slow and sensual kiss, those tend to be more romantic, and it should be a little dark if it's a dance anyway.

[SoSweetAngel]

Go for it!
I think it's rude to snog in front of friends or family, but I think it's ok when you're out drinking or dancing or whatever. It's all part of the fun.

If other people are all over each other, then feel free. If no one else seems to be considering the opposite sex, then just try not to spend the whole night attached to each other :)

Don't worry about what otehr people think. They're all assholes!

[Lindster69]

Ah jesus.. NONE of you have ever been to a dance like ours.

I say, go ahead and kiss him. Kiss him all you like, and if you care more about what people will be saying then you shouldnt really be kissing him now should you?