Height Problem

[crazyb0i]

Ok, heres my problem. I have just started kissing my girlfriend between classes all the time but we are having a problem. Shes a bit short so for us to kiss i hunch over and she gets up on her tippy toes and kinda hops a little so we can kiss. I don't mind not being able to give her longer kisses and stuff like that in school because i'm not a big fan of PDA but heres the thing. She came over my house like a week ago and we had our first makeout session and Mikey likes :biggrin: . We madeout in my bed so the height thing didn't make a difference but now i realize i won't be able to makeout with her unless we're sitting or laying down or something. I am trying to think how i can makeout with her without making her stand on an egg carton or anything. The bed thing was good but i don't wanna only be able to makeout with her when we go to my house and parents aren't home. Also i don't want her getting the wrong idea about my intentions by asking her to come to bed with me. So, my question is, what are some ways i can overcome the height diff to kiss my lady and what are some good sitting posistions i can get into for making out when we go to the beach and such.

Sleepy person version:

My girlfriend is shorter than me, what are some positions i can get into to makeout with her?

[jupiter]

What sort of height difference are we talking about here? That might help...

[crazyb0i]

Umm, about a foot and a half.

[HurleyGirlie]

Sitting is good. She can sit on your lap, too.

Ummm.....

Kissing on stairs works...she could stand a stair or two above you or something.

Laying is great too ;) but you already know that!

Sorry, Shan--I know how you hate the mental image you get when I mention Grant and I kissing.

[SoSweetAngel]

My boyfriend is 1 ft 1 inch taller than me....
I'm afraid you just have to bite the bullet and accept that you'll never be able to have really long kisses standing up.

There are so many better ways though..... like if both of you are sitting down, or lying down, or one of you is sitting then the other one can just lean over....
It's never been an issue for us.

I understand that you don't want her to misread your intentions, but just SITTING, not lying down, makes the height difference *much* less noticable.

[__United__]

Is he strong enough to pick you up and kiss you? ;)

[AFI]

Stairs is the best idea i can think of for standing up kisses. Get her to sit on your knee?

My girlfriend's quite a bit smaller than me and she just kinda stands on tip toes...although i didnt actually notice for ages....hehe

You could sit while she stands.........oh! sometimes ill lean against the worktop or a table so im at an angle rather than upright...(weird description....) if you see what i mean, and she'll just stand between my legs or something....

meh, its a tough one....

[Rammstein39]

I'd say a fun thing to do is have her jump into your arms (catch her!!!), wrap her legs around u so she is facing you and then u are at the same height! I did this with my ex so we could kiss and stuff and then we would flirt by him threatening to drop me. Haha.. good times. But if you cant pick her up or dont liek the idea, then do what everyone else said lol.

[Asphodelle13]

That's why I wear tall shoes. :cool2: But I'm of average height so its not like I really need them..I just like going from 5'5 to 5'9. :cool2:

I don't think there's anything you can do besides what has already been said..

[LilMami2Sexi4U]

yeah my boyfrieds a lot taller than me. we dont get to kiss that often standing up, its in bed most of the time but sometimes i'll be sitting on a chair and he;ll lean over and kiss me for awhile..its real sweet :)

[Sydney123456]

Originally posted by crazyb0i@Jun 9 2004, 08:32 PM
Umm, about a foot and a half.
LOL!!!

Sorry, that is funny.

Stairs are good, like someone mentioned; the picking up idea if good too. What's so bad with bending over anyways?? Whenever I see couples like that, it gives me a warm feeling to see the guy hunch over and kiss her...it just looks incredibly sweet. :)

Don't worry...it's all good.

[The Unknown Songwriter]

It's cute when a guy bends down to the girl to kiss her. I am a verticaly challanged man(5'5" barefoot), and a lot of the time I am shorter than the girls are if they do high heals. I try wear cowboy boots if I can, but girls in heels are still taller and I am still short. I am a master of dipping girls down to kiss them, sometimes, it can embaress some of them, but usualy it looks like your sweet. I've noticed that it works for any hight difference.

[ps_tiger]

To be honest, i like making out better sitting or laying down anyway.

[NukSu]

Ha.. This is right down my alley. I was in a serious Love relationship with a girl for 3 years. She was 4 foot 9. I am 6 foot 2. Imagine going everywhere in public and you're with this thing shorter then youl. I became humiliatd at times, people would make fun of me. But I didn't care. She was still a girl ;)

Anyways dude, my best advice to you is.. (Do you really want someone with such a height difference?)

In love, physical appearance does nto matter. Physicall traits do not matter. I know this. But I'm saying this for your best interest, since I wa with a girl like that for 3 years.

You might eventually want someone your size, and you mighr evventually lose interest. (Happened to me, and I never thought it would, since I am the type who believes in love)

BUT if you DO choose her, I suggest you talk to her about investing into some PLATFORM boots. I was hunched over for a long time, but the boots allowed me to walk with her and reach her waist as we walked.

Just keep in mind that if you are with ehr for a long time, you will develop a habitual hunch, and if you ever break up, you will have to learn how to walk tall again (As I am doing)

Physical traits do not matter in love, BUT, in terms of heights and weight, physical synchronization in a couple is very sucessful (Subconciously) - Aynyways, hope that helped.

hope my advice helps :P