We're friends...but we had Cybersex. Now what?

[Ania]

I did something naughty. You see, my guy friend and I had cybersex yesterday. Everything is so weird now.......it's gonna be so awkward seeing him at school on Mon. What should I do? has this ever happened to you?

[zoe]

It hasn't happened to me before, but I'm guessing that your best bet is to just act like normal like it didn't affect you. If you're comfortable enough to have done that with him, I don't see why you'd be so uncomfortable afterwards. Just act normally, and see what happens :)

[qtpa2t]

Well, I've never had this problem "cyberically" speaking. But my friend Shawn and I played a lil game of rock, paper, scissors with a strip poker twist. Well, it led to other things. I would suggest, whether you want your relationship to step it up a level or not, to play it cool. DOn't make a big issue out of the whole thing. Make sure he knows things are cool with your friendship still and all. Don't act out of the ordinary or things WILL get complicated. Best of Luck! Britt

[Bath of Glitter]

Whoa, that is naughty. :roll: It's just text on a computer screen. Act normal, and don't take it seriously.

[Tootsie Pop]

he is proboly thinking the same thing. If you dont make a big deal about it, he most likely will not bring it up. Just play it out. No biggie, no worries. :)

[kuju]

ignorance is bliss. In the sense that, through ignoring it, you won't have to deal with it. Not perhaps the most Admirable philosophy, but it's been mine for years! lol.

and yes, I've kind of cybered... with this guy down in australia (who shall remain nameless of course, NOT BigJim) and it was funny. And with my now ex-boyfriend. But never with a guy friend...

[Deidre]

Consider for yourself; what has really changed here?
Do you want anything to change? If not, why act different. You don't know, but maybe he does this thing with a lot of female friends... or maybe it's only with you. Is there a reason for that? Etc.
Do you want things to be different? If not, I'd say, don't worry and don't let it get to you too much.

[DarkSeductress]

Ive never cybered with someone I knew personally and had to see face to face but if I did I would just act cool, be the calm and clear headed person out of you two, let him get all worked up and worried over this nothing-little situation, let him come to you all blabbering and nervous and confused - watch him squirm! :wink: [/i]

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Well, if you read my topic, Favors, then you know my situation, It was really weird for my to go back to school after that night but we just acted normal and everythings fine, just don't get all nervousy and well, that cybersex, what i did was far more and well, wasn't with a girlfriend so that makes matters worse.

Like Bath of Glitter said, its only text on a screen, just be cool, don't talk about it if you don't want to OR talk to it with him.