bitshifter
November 21st, 2003, 01:28 AM
First, a little background. This may seem unnecessary but it ties together in the end.
I worry about stupid things, things that I shouldn't even consider worrying about. Especially in relationships. For instance, the girl I have been dating for almost a month emailed me about a week ago saying how glad she was that we got together, and that she is happy with me, etc etc. This made me feel great, I emailed her back and told her how I felt as well (same as her, pretty much). We havn't talked about our relationship since then-- I know she still feels the same-- but I still worry that her feelings have changed, even though it's only been a week since she told me how she felt. Stupid, eh?
What does this have to do with kissing you ask? Well, as I said, it's been a month since we started dating. I havn't kissed her yet. Sure, a peck on the lips when it seems appropriate, but not a full blown kiss yet. There's 2 problems:
a: There hasn't been a time where it felt special... We've either been with friends, or in public, and I'd rather not have our first kiss end with a peddler asking for change.
b: Main problem: she's not giving any signals! She grabs my hand, puts her head on my shoulder, cute little things like that, but whenever it would seem like a good time to kiss she's not showing me she wants me to kiss her, like moving in close, touching me, etc etc...
When I give her a peck on the lips she seems to perk up a little and never pulls away or anything-- I know this is a great sign but it seems like if she really wanted to kiss me she'd make it obvious. Am I just thinking about this too much? Should I just do it when I have her alone next time? I just don't want to scare her away, you know?
Thanks guys, as always :)
I worry about stupid things, things that I shouldn't even consider worrying about. Especially in relationships. For instance, the girl I have been dating for almost a month emailed me about a week ago saying how glad she was that we got together, and that she is happy with me, etc etc. This made me feel great, I emailed her back and told her how I felt as well (same as her, pretty much). We havn't talked about our relationship since then-- I know she still feels the same-- but I still worry that her feelings have changed, even though it's only been a week since she told me how she felt. Stupid, eh?
What does this have to do with kissing you ask? Well, as I said, it's been a month since we started dating. I havn't kissed her yet. Sure, a peck on the lips when it seems appropriate, but not a full blown kiss yet. There's 2 problems:
a: There hasn't been a time where it felt special... We've either been with friends, or in public, and I'd rather not have our first kiss end with a peddler asking for change.
b: Main problem: she's not giving any signals! She grabs my hand, puts her head on my shoulder, cute little things like that, but whenever it would seem like a good time to kiss she's not showing me she wants me to kiss her, like moving in close, touching me, etc etc...
When I give her a peck on the lips she seems to perk up a little and never pulls away or anything-- I know this is a great sign but it seems like if she really wanted to kiss me she'd make it obvious. Am I just thinking about this too much? Should I just do it when I have her alone next time? I just don't want to scare her away, you know?
Thanks guys, as always :)