erections

[AbnormalBob]

hehe, well, its really sad, but when i have phyiscal contact...as little as maybe cuddling, and holding hands, i get an erection...not all the time, but they happen quite frequently to me, and i dunno if my gf notices or not

do u have ne tips to keep it down?....besides taping it to my leg!

[BigJim]

happens to all of us bob.

best way is just to angle it in your underwear to be as least noticable as possible.

best way i've found it to aim it upwards. that way it grows up and not out. just be careful it doesn't peek over your jeans!

[Am I tight or not?]

why do you have to hide it?

[scubasteverocks]

i agree with the girl who doesnt know if shes tight...why would u want to hide it...especially when youre with your girlfriend...let it roam free!

[Barefoot Matt]

i agree with the girl who doesnt know if shes tight...why would u want to hide it...especially when youre with your girlfriend...let it roam free!
LOL. Am I tight or not, also known as AITON, is a guy. Don't feel bad though, I thought the same thing when I first met him ;-)

[Am I tight or not?]

i agree with the girl who doesnt know if shes tight...why would u want to hide it...especially when youre with your girlfriend...let it roam free!
LOL. Am I tight or not, also known as AITON, is a guy. Don't feel bad though, I thought the same thing when I first met him ;-)

yes, it's a weird nickname I agree...

I was thinking of "Am I hot or not" when I chose it, and my old nick was "Hump my asshole" (I was an ass-obsessed teenager)

strangely enough I am not gay...

[kuju]

BAHAHAHAHHA!@ that was damn funny.

but anyway, yeah. you don't want to be 'poking out' during a hug. Just angle it upwards.

[Deidre]

Forum statistics say it's flattering for a girl to know that she has given her boyfriend an erection...
Forum statistics also say that a lot of people think anyone who doesn't is immature and so not ready to be in a relationship.

[Extra_Texture]

Forum statistics say it's flattering for a girl to know that she has given her boyfriend an erection...
Forum statistics also say that a lot of people think anyone who doesn't is immature and so not ready to be in a relationship.

I love statistics, always say what you want to hear!! :D


So whats the problem with having an erection when you touch your girlfriend?Its the most natural thing of the world..I mean youre human and a man..so er...yeah!Dont worry about it!! :mrgreen: :D

[Deidre]

I love statistics, always say what you want to hear!! :D

Umm, yeah, but this isn't real statistics... this is forum statistics... as in "we've had this type of thread a million times and the majority always say..." :D

[Extra_Texture]

I love statistics, always say what you want to hear!! :D

Umm, yeah, but this isn't real statistics... this is forum statistics... as in "we've had this type of thread a million times and the majority always say..." :D

I know, but its nice anyway :wink:

[Intrigue1201]

Don't hide it if you're around your girlfriend...they like those things (hopefully) I think it's highly unlikey that she'll be running away screaming "OH MY GOD! MAKE IT SOFT AGAIN!!" If you happen to get an erection while having physical contact with her. Just don't worry about it :)

[sunfrost]

Had some akward moment yesterday, I was at a party dancing a slow with a girl I know. But pretty heavy, with the known result. But it pointed partly down, and got stuck halfway there between underwear fabric and some fold in my jeans it think. Pretty uncomfortable I have to say, and you can't solve it.
Like, in the middle of the dance:

Do you have a second...

::grabs to croch to straighten things out::

That's better... where were we... :-)

[Am I tight or not?]

Had some akward moment yesterday, I was at a party dancing a slow with a girl I know. But pretty heavy, with the known result. But it pointed partly down, and got stuck halfway there between underwear fabric and some fold in my jeans it think. Pretty uncomfortable I have to say, and you can't solve it.
Like, in the middle of the dance:

Do you have a second...

::grabs to croch to straighten things out::

That's better... where were we... :-)

at least it didn't point straight at (and into) her :)

[ChvyRacing04]

I'd be more worried about not getting one than getting one. Spontaneous erections are a definate sign that you're not impotent. be thankfukl.

[scubasteverocks]

i agree with the girl who doesnt know if shes tight...why would u want to hide it...especially when youre with your girlfriend...let it roam free!
LOL. Am I tight or not, also known as AITON, is a guy. Don't feel bad though, I thought the same thing when I first met him ;-)

Oh...shit.

[hunnybunz]

It would make me happy to know I make my guy excited. Don't worry about it.

[DarkSeductress]

Here's a thought, what if these two people are still quite innocent and inexperienced (thus the constant popping up of the one eyed monster) and are genuinely just not ready for them to take any action? Would you still suggest to him to "let it loose"? I don't think just because things happen naturally we should always react on them, but I'm just arguing for the sake of arguing, IF they were of a very young age.

[AbnormalBob]

(this is the poster speaking, if you didnt notice)

seductress..weve been in a relationship for 2 weeks...today actually...and this is her first relationship, and my 2nd and a half(the first one was only a half, we didnt even kiss), and call me slow, but i havent exactly kissed her on the lips yet(i either chicken out, or her parents/sister is right there), so were definatly not ready to get under the clothes yet, its not that were really young seductress, its that were inexperienced and its early in the relationship

and not to mention the fact that it also happens at school...its not so much that its turning me on...its more of the fact that its happening

[DarkSeductress]

I meant for the argument to be hyperthetical Bob, that I think yes, the guy should abstain from going on ahead and sticking it into her when they hug or something just cos girls in general find it a compliment (which I very much agree with btw) but that for points such as:

* If the two are just entering relationship together
* And if they are of very young ages

They should then be respectful and he should try to not put it in her face etc.

That's just something that came to me... As for your physical problem that you can't seem to control, sorry pal, I got nothing for you. Apart from what my bf said about techniques to last longer in bed (preoccupy your mind with other things or conciously look from left to top to right to bottom repeating over and over again to try and control it) I have nothing for you...

[Bravehearter]

Its all about the angle. Unless this girl is a shut in, she will realize that its natural, and if you are going to be getting physical, yes it is going to happen to you. Just dont make a big production of 're-adjusting' That might scare her off a bit.

[Am I tight or not?]

I meant for the argument to be hyperthetical

see, the trouble with using "big words" on this board is, people might think you're misspelling.

So I'll go ahead and ask. did you really mean hyperthetical (Exaggerated; excessive; hyperbolical) or you meant hypothetical (Suppositional; uncertain)?


They should then be respectful and he should try to not put it in her face


ohh, but we love sticking it in places... :(

[scubasteverocks]

If she's innocent and inexperienced she might have problem with it...but maybe she's just waiting for an introduction? :cool3: "Hello, babe, i'd like you to meet Herman"...at least mine is Herman. :lol:

[JessiMari]

Oh gosh...I'm a girl...and I just feel so accomplished when that happens to my bf...Haha I remember once my bf was wearing sweats...and he got a Hard one...and I didn't say anything, but he made it too obvious and he said he had to go...He seemed very embarrassed about it...I thought it was pretty cute....I don't think you should hide it...For girls (well at least for me) getting a guy turned on is a good thing...So just show it! :D

[sayuri235]

Forum statistics say it's flattering for a girl to know that she has given her boyfriend an erection...
Forum statistics also say that a lot of people think anyone who doesn't is immature and so not ready to be in a relationship.


good lord how true that is!! ^.^ i'm always happy when i give my bf an erection. i wouldn't worry about it at all...in fact, if you do get really horny when you and your gf are hugging or cuddling or whatever, just pull her closer to you. bite her ear or suck her neck a bit, just to let her know that you're horny ^.~. i'm sure she'll be pleased ^____^