[friends, partner] Jealous of other-sex friends.

[Meiso]

I've been in a strange friendship with Girl X where there has been some mixed signals. For a longer period I've been friends with Girl Z who has proved to me that guy/girl friendships are possible. I think this is because the complete absence of any signals that would hint at anything romantic. After telling Girl X I had feelings for her, and getting turned down, we spent a lot more time together. I got tired of getting so close to her and having to always question whether or not she was flirting with me. Girl Z had been a great friend this whole time, and she was having some rough times herself so we naturally became closer in our friendship much like brother and sister. Now Girl X and I still talk, but have given each other a bit of space. I don't try as hard with her, and have to watch myself because she accuses me of being strange or rude. Girl X has commented several times that I'm "sure spending a lot of time" with Girl Y, and even asks Girl Y what we've been up to. I still have feelings for Girl X, she still questions me on whether I've been dating other people, and always asks what I've been doing with Girl Y. Is this normal? Is this unhealthy? Is it time to back off some more?

[kuju]

okay.... at least give people made UP names... though really... we don't know you. it's okay to use names.


and where the hell did girl Y come from? I'd love to help you, but I don't even really understand the question.

[chiukit]

is this another episode of dawson's creek? (and what the hell is kuju doing up so early)


question is, is there anythin up with you and girl Y? from the way you're talking about things, i suppose that there isnt. and you still got it in for girl X. so i guess the only way for this sitch to go is when girl X asks you about girl Y again, just be flirtacious and turn it all around on HER. be like "why, you jealous?" or "no.. im not dating other people. cos i wanna date you." in a joking way and stuff and just see her reaction..

use her curiosity on your love life over her.

[Danae]

I'm lost as well. It does resemble Dawson's Creek, tho, from what I can tell!

[Bravehearter]

Indeed.. but Ashley (my love) has a best friend who is a guy and has came onto her on a number of occasions.. bastard.

Try retping your question so its feasable.

[Kuky]

Originally posted by chiukit@Aug 12 2003, 09:45 AM
is this another episode of dawson's creek? (and what the hell is kuju doing up so early)


Sounds more like Fermat's Last Theorem :lol:.

Anyway, assuming Y is just a misplaced Z, you may want to ask X (next time she brings it up) what the matter is... like, just make a comment about how she sure brings this up a lot. Don't make a big deal out of it, cause if X sees you're using this as a tool to corner her or something, she will get pissed... and then call you weird.

Kuky