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Inmate 78
March 13th, 2002, 11:21 AM
i saw dr phil talking about this and thought it would make a good topic.
so what do you people think? is looking at porn cheating?
KnightRider
March 13th, 2002, 12:50 PM
Fuck no!
KevinStrickland
March 13th, 2002, 01:00 PM
According to the Bible... yes.
Well.. since i'm not exactally a PRACTICING Christian, i'd say go ahead and do what makes you happy, but if she finds out that you are lusting after other women... and it doesn't slightly turn her on (it rarely does anymore :cry: ) then you have hell to pay!
SoSweetAngel
March 13th, 2002, 01:01 PM
No - I don't think so.
Extra_Texture
March 13th, 2002, 01:35 PM
Of course not, you're not having sex with the porn actresses.
But if you would be in a healthy relationship you would not need porn.. :o
Asphodelle13
March 13th, 2002, 01:52 PM
I dunno about the Bible...but technically I don't consider it cheating...I can see how it would stem feelings of insecurity though in a relationship..If you have someone that you love and are attracted to, why would an x-rated video or a playboy be any better then that?...I guess its harmless and all in good fun if you're sexually frustrated and umm..want to 'please yourself' :P...IMO I think its kinda stupid, I only watched it with a bunch of friends for a laugh :lol: ...though it might be beneficial if you get any ideas from porn and show them to your bf/gf hehe...but yeah if you get into it more then your bf/gf and begin to lust after someone else...then that's when I think it can be destructive to a relationship.
kuju
March 13th, 2002, 02:43 PM
I don't think porn is cheating... just don't leave it lying around for your S.O. to see, ya know? It can be useful, and as masturbation is healthy (in moderation) it's useful as a tool for that.
Deidre
March 13th, 2002, 02:59 PM
No... I don't think so. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to think of some porn star every time I'm with him, though, but I don't consider porn in itself cheating.
Am I tight or not?
March 13th, 2002, 03:35 PM
But if you would be in a healthy relationship you would not need porn.. :o
i disagree totally. jst because you enjoy porn doesn't mean that there's something wrong with the relationship.
no, porn is not cheating.
Tootsie Pop
March 13th, 2002, 05:39 PM
Noo.. I dont consider it cheating at all.
miz erotika
March 13th, 2002, 05:40 PM
i don't think porn is cheating. as long as it's viewed in moderation and not used as a substitute for sex (or any other physical activity) with one's significant other, everything is fine. in some cases, porn may actually help a relationship. for one, you can watch it together and possibly get new ideas
PepsiWonder
March 13th, 2002, 06:43 PM
It's not technically cheating, but it would bother me to know that my boyfriend would feel the need to look at porn when I'm right here and usually willing to mess around. The only time that it wouldn't bother me too much is if we were watchin it together, and even then we'd probably just be making fun of it.
kewlgal99
March 13th, 2002, 07:04 PM
its not cheating, but its like staring at her friends breasts when shes trying to talk to you...you're not cheating on her, but shes not going to be happy. maybe if its straight porn, you could enjoy it together though...make sure the guys hot!
PitBullGirl
March 13th, 2002, 07:22 PM
i read about this last night actually. in a book my friend let me borrow, called "A lifetime of Sex". :lol:
anyway it said something like what everyone says here. porn is good, bla bla in moderation bla bla bla... and then it said to try to share it with your partner(maybe), and its better to try to get ideas from it rather than just use it because you're sexually frustraited in the relationship.
ok thats all i have to say!
Brass Monkey
March 13th, 2002, 07:46 PM
I consider porn cheating as much as I consider masturbation cheating.
scubasteverocks
March 14th, 2002, 12:10 AM
hehe...i cheat daily... 8)
Bravehearter
March 14th, 2002, 01:44 AM
HELL NO!
And if you have any doubt.
let her (or him) watch it with ya.
PROBLEM SOLVED!
BigJim
March 14th, 2002, 02:23 AM
i'm not sure about 'cheating' but i've never and will never watch porn while i'm a relationship. it's just not right to me.
besides, you might start get feelings of jealousy that your girl doesn't scream at you to fuck her up the ass, drink your cum, love to have it splattered over her face, love 3 & 4-somes, and the size of her tits.
on the other side, maybe a girl might start feel unsatisified with the size of her partner's penis after looking at porn stars with 9-11 inch tackle.
i think it's not healthy.
Deidre
March 14th, 2002, 02:36 AM
i think it's not healthy.
That's why you watch hentai... it's such an obvious exaggeration. Little schoolgirls don't have breasts that size... and tentacles from outer space seldom attack girl schools... ;)
j/k
Barefoot Matt
March 14th, 2002, 03:11 AM
i think it's not healthy.
That's why you watch hentai... it's such an obvious exaggeration. Little schoolgirls don't have breasts that size... and tentacles from outer space seldom attack girl schools... ;)
j/k
I've always thought the tentacles were a bit over-the-top, myself. where did they come up with that???
Slimeboy
March 14th, 2002, 04:28 AM
Hell No :evil2:
Sweet-ish
March 14th, 2002, 04:58 AM
If watching porn IS cheating......:oops:
(Of course, since I'm single, kinda hard to cheat, right?) :lol:
Shocka
March 14th, 2002, 08:23 AM
Is porn cheating? I don't think so, but I think it's something you should discuss with your partner and find out if they're comfortable with it.
That's why you watch hentai... it's such an obvious exaggeration. Little schoolgirls don't have breasts that size... and tentacles from outer space seldom attack girl schools... ;)
I've always thought the tentacles were a bit over-the-top, myself. where did they come up with that???
Being a huge fan of hentai, specifically the ones where the young 14 year old preteen virgin is burst open by a massive demon with 15 inch diameter tentacles/cocks (with extra blood!), I can tell you that the first mainstrean tentacle hentai was Urotsukidoji (sp) - The Legend of the Overfiend. It's a wonderfully nasty tale available at your video store about the three worlds of demon, beast and human coming together and a lot of innocent women and girls being hurt in the process. Some of it's hilarious - I bet you've never seen two cocks penetrate a woman from inside her vagina. Nasty!!!!
ShRt SwEEt*n*SexY
March 14th, 2002, 08:49 PM
i think porn can be considered cheating. cheating isn't only physical it can be mental too. lust is like a fire is destroys all it touches. when lust controls your thoughts it cheapens real relationships, it makes humans nothing more then sex objects. i think the question is is there a need for porn in a healthy relationship? if your answer is yes then i think your definition of healthy is different form mine.
Klounn
March 14th, 2002, 09:16 PM
three letters for you....
N-O-O (bet you thought i was gonna say yes.....)
if thats cheating, than by looking at more than one girl in porn videos would be consedred cheating too
super_chevy2000
March 14th, 2002, 09:23 PM
I don't think it is cheating. It can even be something for a couple to do together.
KevinStrickland
March 15th, 2002, 03:17 PM
Is porn cheating? I don't think so, but I think it's something you should discuss with your partner and find out if they're comfortable with it.
That's why you watch hentai... it's such an obvious exaggeration. Little schoolgirls don't have breasts that size... and tentacles from outer space seldom attack girl schools... ;)
I've always thought the tentacles were a bit over-the-top, myself. where did they come up with that???
Being a huge fan of hentai, specifically the ones where the young 14 year old preteen virgin is burst open by a massive demon with 15 inch diameter tentacles/cocks (with extra blood!), I can tell you that the first mainstrean tentacle hentai was Urotsukidoji (sp) - The Legend of the Overfiend. It's a wonderfully nasty tale available at your video store about the three worlds of demon, beast and human coming together and a lot of innocent women and girls being hurt in the process. Some of it's hilarious - I bet you've never seen two cocks penetrate a woman from inside her vagina. Nasty!!!!
That is fucking disgusting! :redface:
Jebus
March 15th, 2002, 05:06 PM
I don't consider porn cheating...
...but it doesn't matter for me anyways, Damn you Site Watcher. Stupid thing watches me 24/7. And believe me, tis a satanic little program.....
Barefoot Matt
March 15th, 2002, 08:22 PM
Is porn cheating? I don't think so, but I think it's something you should discuss with your partner and find out if they're comfortable with it.
That's why you watch hentai... it's such an obvious exaggeration. Little schoolgirls don't have breasts that size... and tentacles from outer space seldom attack girl schools... ;)
I've always thought the tentacles were a bit over-the-top, myself. where did they come up with that???
Being a huge fan of hentai, specifically the ones where the young 14 year old preteen virgin is burst open by a massive demon with 15 inch diameter tentacles/cocks (with extra blood!), I can tell you that the first mainstrean tentacle hentai was Urotsukidoji (sp) - The Legend of the Overfiend. It's a wonderfully nasty tale available at your video store about the three worlds of demon, beast and human coming together and a lot of innocent women and girls being hurt in the process. Some of it's hilarious - I bet you've never seen two cocks penetrate a woman from inside her vagina. Nasty!!!!
*ahem* When I asked where they came up with that, it was a rhetorical question... :roll:
stace
March 16th, 2002, 12:21 PM
well definatly think about your so, how would u feel if you found out that they were watching it, wait that might be a bad exapmle, but i dunno i'm one of those people completly against porn all together so maybe i should just stop what i'm typing now and leave.
:walks away shaking her head:
Commander
March 16th, 2002, 12:27 PM
According to the Bible... yes.
Could you give a reference to back up your claim?
Am I tight or not?
March 16th, 2002, 01:16 PM
besides, you might start get feelings of jealousy that your girl doesn't scream at you to fuck her up the ass, drink your cum, love to have it splattered over her face, love 3 & 4-somes, and the size of her tits.
you mean they don't all do that? :cry:
dreams...shattered...
Am I tight or not?
March 16th, 2002, 01:20 PM
That is fucking disgusting! :redface:
this seems strangely appropriate
http://ghastly.keenspace.com/comics/20010510.jpg
more tentacle monster comics at http://ghastly.keenspace.com/
KevinStrickland
March 16th, 2002, 01:45 PM
^^^^^^^^
Fucking hilarious!
Oh, and as for the Bible response... uh... i don't follow the Bible, due to my minister roomate who has turned me off to religion.
stace
March 16th, 2002, 10:23 PM
Oh, and as for the Bible response... uh... i don't follow the Bible, due to my minister roomate who has turned me off to religion.
i don't remeber the exacts to it although if you want it i knwo a few peeps who have the Bible practically memorized, so i can check w/ them if anyone actually wants the verses? just let me know and i can ask them.
scubasteverocks
March 16th, 2002, 10:40 PM
besides, you might start get feelings of jealousy that your girl doesn't scream at you to fuck her up the ass, drink your cum, love to have it splattered over her face, love 3 & 4-somes, and the size of her tits.
you mean they don't all do that? :cry:
dreams...shattered...
dreams are better anyway...there's no effort involvd and everyone wants you...I'm tired... :zzz:
Mushu
March 17th, 2002, 01:30 AM
I don't think it's cheating, but I think it can, not alway, harm a relationship. Some people feel as if their partner isn't satisfied with them, so that's why they watch porn. I think depending on someone's motives, it can be harmful or helpful, but I don't think it's cheating.
Mushu
lana
March 17th, 2002, 10:47 PM
I don't consider porn to be cheating. Cheating requires another real life person. Not a video or tv channel...
Yes, it may bother the other person... but it's not cheating...
sayuri235
March 18th, 2002, 11:56 PM
haha, if i concidered porn to be cheating, my boyfriend and i woulda broken up 2 days after we started out. :P so no, it's not cheating. but keep on telling her that she's the most beautiful, amazing, sexy little thing you've ever met, and that you must be the luckiest guy to have her as your gf. :P tee hee ^.^
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