so for a first kiss on the lips would

[cdude]

both people have to open thier mouth a little or is it okay
if just one does that? should one move thier head back
and forth like in a tongue kiss? what if you open your
mouth but the other person keeps thiers closed?

oh and what if they just had a snack and dont wanna kiss you
with candy breath? wouldnt it be unromantic to interrupt the moment
of the kiss to pull out some binaca?

[mearimydra]

If one person opens their mouth, the other person will probably instinctively follow or their mouth would get swallowed. Most things in a kiss are instinctive or natural, especially if you just relax.
Don't move your head back and forth, just your lips. You really don't want to kiss a jack-in-the-box. If the other person is more experienced, just follow them and you'll be fine.
Snacks are fine, I really don't notice food that much unless its something like BBQ sauce ((bleugh)), and sometimes having the other person eating chocolate or something beforehand is great fun....I remember kissing my ex just after he'd eaten some toffee icecream...yum!
For a good kiss, chew some mint gum or something beforehand, but definately spit out your gum before you kiss. Unless they're skilled at hiding it, it's not nice to find someone elses gum in your mouth.
And yes, it would be extremely unromantic to interrupt the kiss to eat something. That's like stopping in the middle of a heated discussion to briefly read a book.

Meari

[Sydney123456]

If one person doesn't want to open mouth kiss or what not...don't force. Play a little bit with the tongue and the lips, but don't force it. Makes me want to smack the guy if he does.

And...do NOT interrupt the kiss for Binaca. Do that before...my boyfriend and I ALWAYS have gum after dinner because we don't know if we'll need it or not...better to be safe than sorry. :P

[super_chevy2000]

These things do come instinctively and natural. It's easy to follow someone's lead and not even be aware at the time that you are doing it. I would recommend that you not interrupt a kiss for a breath freshner. That needs to be done ahead of time because it can mess up the mood a little.
This is nothing to worry about though because everything will likely fall into place at the time you kiss. If you feel comfortable with opening your mouth and the other person doesn't do it soon enough, just slightly open yours and run your tongue along their lips softly to give a signal that you are ok with it but don't force it because the other person may not feel ready for it either.

[Wrightman84]

a kiss is a remarkable thing
you just seem to know what is right... it is a little weird at first, for the first oh.. 3 seconds.. then once you relax it is the greatest thing..
i love kissing
you'll just seem to do what is natural...
don't think, you think it will be bad, you just think as far as.. "my lips must touch hers, not her nose cheek or eye.." LOL

[Roguish Grin]

don't think, you think it will be bad, you just think as far as.. "my lips must touch hers, not her nose cheek or eye.." LOL

ROFL.....I can't help thinking about that story someone had about getting a tongue up the other person's nose........ :o :lol: