can one change another?

[Wrightman84]

okay i met this great girl Aimee
i'll get strait to the point
now for one her mouth is small.. when we kiss it kinda sux cus her motuh is small and this kinda makes her a bad kisser...
now i was wondering how i can tell her that she kinda is a bad kisser
and don't get me wrong, i have been on one date with her and she is great, we have so much in common! i was really shocked at how much we had in common
lik she would say something lik.. "i don't like fish at all" and well i hate fish so i was lik "whoa me too" and so on
neway, i don't really want to mess up this relationship cus she a bad kisser
can she change how she kisses and/or can i help her change?

[Rainbow Brite]

I dont think mouth size determines your kissing status...people w/ big mouths can be horrible kissers as well. You shouldn't let that one date ruin a potentially good relationship. Part of it could be due to the fact that you're not used to her mouth. With time and practice, you'll get used to her and her kissing style. Next time, you could be subtle and try to guide her and tell her how you like being kissed.

[The Original Taco]

she would say something lik.. "i don't like fish at all" and well i hate fish so i was lik "whoa me too"

Wow, you must've met your soul mate.

Practice makes perfect. Unless her mouth is the size of a cherry, don't say anything. The only thing you'll have to worry about (size-wise), is when she wants to give you oral. :lol:

[snow_angel]

As the original taco says practice makes perfect :wink:
Give it a while and see how it goes, if after then the whole mounth kissing thing still buggs u then tell he gentle. Then suggest some things you guys can try to work it out.
At first i didn't think my brfriend was a very good kisser because his lips are slightly large. It just takes some getting used to, now i just love it when we kiss.

[JessiMari]

Yeah i think it shouldn't matter...It's just how you work it!

[Gunslinger]

Small can be good. She can nip lightly at your larger lips, and it will take more of her kisses to entirley cover your body. :)

Think positive!

[Wrightman84]

good point gunslinger.. and the rest.. [it just cus i can see his username when i post the quick reply :P ] all u had good points
well personally i got a huge mouth
imo
and the last girl i kissed had a big moth too, so it was almost a perfect match
and she doesn't really have a small mouth, it just when she kisses it small, for some reason..
but ya i guess i'll have to get used to it

and yes i was thinking that we are lik soul mates.. if u beleive in that stuff... but it was lik she was talking about me when she was really talking about herself

[Gunslinger]

She keeps her mouth small? what does that mean?

[Sydney123456]

she would say something lik.. "i don't like fish at all" and well i hate fish so i was lik "whoa me too"

Wow, you must've met your soul mate.


I was going to hold my tongue...but since you said it first... :lol:


Anywho...like everybody said, practice makes perfect. The more you kiss...the more used to it you're going to be. Right now...it's rather foreign to you, right? Well, as time progresses, and you guys keep kissing, it's going to get better. You're going to adapt to her small mouth and what not...and everything will be good. :)

[Wrightman84]

thx all again
syds and umm taco bout the soul mate thing.. i have given that some thought myself... and it is actually freaky how much we have in common..
as for kissing.. ya i think i..we will adapt..
thx again