kissing someone who is not your bf/gf

[mollyelaine]

have you ever kissed anyone who is not your bf or gf? would you? I was so tempted to kiss this guy I have a major crush on last night when he drove me home... but I remember once he said that he wouldn't kiss a girl who wasn't his girlfriend. what do you think of this?

[Jebus]

For me, a kiss has many different levels. I kiss my friends (girls) all the time, but they are innocent. I'd never go into something emotional with someone who isn't my girlfriend. I don't even kiss on the first date, so I'm not going to go to a party and make-out with someone. I have too many pointless rules that I've established, yet I've decided to always stick with them.

[sageraw]

well my first kiss was not with my bf but he became my Bf after that kiss. so it depends on the intentions of the person imo

[KAFEEN]

Yeah I kissed 3 guys that weren't my b/f before..not that, that was my intention to 'kiss someone that wasnt my b/f' but it just happened. Like I went on this blind date with sme guy....he sounded cool on the phone...but when I saw him i wasn't quite attracted...but..he was nice..and it seemed like he wanted to kiss so i just did. and the 2nd guy well I don't know I was just drunk and then the 3rd one I really liked him and we just kissed one day and my intentions were to go out with him, but he didn't want too. I guess it's okay to kiss someone yur not going out with but kinda bad if you kiss the guy thinking afterwards your going to out with him and you dont :( and it's kind of bad if you kiss some guy, and he hopes to go out with you and you have no intetion...

[Sydney123456]

Not being in a relationship- oh hell yes. I'd say...all but 2 guys I've kissed, I was not in a relationship with. It's not like you'd be considered a "whore" if you kissed someone that wasn't your boyfriend.

I don't see the big deal really. Unless it's one of those fucked up "I'm your friend, and I don't want to endanger our friendship...blah blah blah" stuff.

[Cherisse]

I think it's fun. And I don't get why people won't kiss someone unless they're together. But if it makes them feel better, go them.

[Sparklies]

Each person I've kissed [4 people] wasn't my boyfriend when I first kissed them [that sentence makes NO sense, sorry]. 2 of them never became my boyfriend. I don't see a problem with it really. Kissing can be really intimate if it's with the right person, but it can also be very, very unattached as well. I guess it just depends on how you look at things.

[chiukit]

oh hell yes.
kissed more girls who never was my gf
than girls who did become gf


tis fun!!

[dulcinea]

I think it's fun. And I don't get why people won't kiss someone unless they're together.
Exactly.

Kissing is supposed to be fun, dammit! I'll use it as a show of affection or whatever if I think the other person would be comfortable with such a thing. Most of the people I know wouldn't be, though.

[Skankstar]

i would - if it was just playin around...

and i think id just like to see what it would be like - i wouldnt call it chating - coz id only do it if we both knew it was just a muck around just to see thing

[Hippie96321]

I really don't see that much of a problem with it either. I've kissed a few guys that I wasn't going out with and from those kisses it made up my mind not to go out with them. :)

[moonangel]

Weell ... every guy that I've kissed for the first time was not my boyfriend. Out of 35 of these boys, about 5 became my boyfriends. However, NOW I think that kissing someone, then getting to know them, is just the fucked up way of doing things. Probably why I have no luck with guys. But here, it is just a very openly accepted thing, to kiss people, no matter whether you're together or not. If you find them attractive, you kiss them, and whatever happens from then on, happens.

[JessiMari]

Yeah I use to think that you shouldn't kiss a guy unless they were ur bf....I thought I would be considered a whore...but that was way back then....My last bf I had....he wasn't my bf and we kissed and got together....and last Monday my personal trainer and I kissed! WOW that was amazing btw....just thought I'd share!