A Complicated Flirtation.

[ThatGirl]

Okay I'm totally dying here, so I had to get someone's opinion on what to do.

I'm really into this guy friend of mine. Like majorly. He has recently helped me through a VERY tough break up with my ex-fiance, who I was planning on moving across the country for.

Throughout all this trouble, I became really interested in him, and not in the rebound way, he's a guy I never considered before, but he's sweet and handsome and all that other gushy mushy crap.

Anyway, the other night we were hanging out at his house and we had been flirting a ton and touching and laying in each others arms and it was WAY wonderful. I thoroughly enjoyed myself and I thought he did too. So things progress and we make it to the bed and apparently I gave him a mind-blowing BJ and things were absolutely INCREDIBLE!

Then we woke up in the morning and he was really somber and upset and basically asked me to leave. We talked for a moment and he told me he was very sorry and that was it, I basically haven't heard from him since.

Now I'm seriously hurt. I'm really into him and he's very sweet, but on top of everything he's my friend and it's weird being without him.

I've texted and called and he doesn't respond. He's not the one-night stand kind of guy either. He finally responded once and I asked him if we could meet and talk about what happened and he told me he was very busy this week and maybe next week, but freakin' A! I have no clue what that means and I'm starting to freak.

So what the crap is going on with this dude? I mean should I pick up a copy of "He's just not that into you" because I really thought he was.

[foh4k]

Yes

I think its pretty simple here. he saw an opportunity in your fragile state you were rebounding anyway come on you JUST broke up with someone. You were getting attached he struck while the iron was hot in your vulnerable state and now it is what it is.

Get over it. You played into it by investing too much too soon. Remember it was your trouble not his. You became interested and in exactly the rebound kind of way. You wanted comfort and he was there. His job is done. Pick yourself up and go on with your life without having to fall into the arms of another Saviour and rescuer of your emotions.

[phasesofthemoon]

No! Pick up a copy of "Blowing A Guy Will Not Make Him Love Me" instead.

Let him contact you next. You've tried to reach out to him enough. He, for some reasons needs to process what just happened. He's being an immature knob about it but it's now up to him to reach out to you. Give him a bit of time to figure out what has made him distance himself. Hopefully he'll be honest with you.

*why am I getting the vibe that this is the same girl who posted that she blew her sister's bf?

P.S. "A complicated Flirtation JHC.. A blow job is much more than a "flirtation" is it not? *boggled*

[ThatGirl]

Thanks Phaseofthemoon, and no. I promise i'm not the same girl. I don't have a sister, but if I did I would so be the backstabbing bitch that would blow her boyfriend. JK.

[foh4k]

Yikes!!!

[phasesofthemoon]

Quick.. ThatGirl, get back into your last post and edit that "would" to a "wouldn't." lol ... Unless you actually mean you would be, of course. In which case, it's quite clear why your friend is .. uhm.. creeped out to have your lips planted on his most precious bodily possession. I mean not knowing where they've been lately and all.

[phasesofthemoon]

Clearly the "J/K" is far too small for such a statement, ThatGirl .. :lol3:

[ThatGirl]

I actually never give BJ's. I've given one before him . . . which was especially fun because the po-po got there before the big finnish. And I would only assume that it was mind blowing because he couldn't stop being a sailor when we were finished. I don't do the whole sex scene often.

[phasesofthemoon]

Well, my dear I'm ages and ages older than you and since my daughter is vacationing, you'll have to translate that into "old" for me. WTF is a po-po (police? I shame myself by guessing) What does "being a sailor" mean? Wobbly sea legs? Oh I dare guess once again. *blushes* (not really but it's fun)

[foh4k]

What?

The po-po? Stop being a sailor?

Am i too old?

[foh4k]

Phase we were both thinking and posting the exact same thought at he same time

[ThatGirl]

Police and Cussing like a Sailor. :) Sorry. I forget I'm on the internet and that I don't really know you :)

[foh4k]

Phase wins one out of two your batting .500 an astoundingly good average in baseball

[phasesofthemoon]

Police and Cussing like a Sailor. :) Sorry. I forget I'm on the internet and that I don't really know you :)

Oh, stick around.. we've bonded slightly already :) Fasten your seat belt though, the ride could get bumpy.

Phase wins one out of two your batting .500 an astoundingly good average in baseball *bats eyelashes*

[ThatGirl]

Okay here's another moment for you that would probably make more sense in real life. Some good friends of mine have a poster that has every abbreviation for texting basically ever. There's almost an abbreviation for what you said, and we always made fun of this one because why in the world would you EVER use it?

FYSTBIGTBABR

Fasten your seat belt its going to be a bumpy ride.

:) Enjoy my random.

[phasesofthemoon]

Gee it would take me longer to figure out the initials in the right order then to type the whole damn thing.

[Fusion Cuisine]

. . . which was especially fun because the po-po got there before the big finnish. And I would only assume that it was mind blowing because he couldn't stop being a sailor when we were finished.

I'm not even gonna say what was going through my head...

Oh what the hell, I will.

"the po-po got there before the big finish" says to me that someone needed to take a dump before the butt-seks was over. And "being a sailor" ... I thought that was about butt-love too.

I was very confused.

Must have a dirty mind :boggled: