Making out....where do ur hands go?

[sweet_angel]

I'm not sure where this thread should go so feel free to move it. Anyway, I've got a few questions:

1. Where do your hands go during a make out session? (Not those that lead to other things, just plain make out sessions)
2. Any hot spots?
3. What are your limits? What do you find uncomfortable?

[snow_angel]

I really depends on where I am, if your kissing standing up, I usually have my hands around the neck of the guy i'm kissing. If i'm sitting I could be holding his hand, have on hand on his head and the other on my lap, or I could have it around is neck too. I really don't know any hot spots it depends on the guy. As for my limits, if it is just a normal makeout session I find it uncomfortable if his hands start to move towards my breast of lower area. When he starts to do that i'll stop him.

[Kobra]

hotspot - gentley caress the face when kissing sitting/lying down doesnt have the same effect when standing :/

[Cherisse]

1) Head, neck, and chest
2) My neck. Mmmmm.....
3) A lot of boob, but and crotch touching. Not all the time, but sometimes, he goes for them a little too much.

[Danae]

I usually put my hands on his back, around his neck or in his hands. I go down his pants too, but that's only if I know we have enough time for that sort of thing :P

[Lauren112285]

1) Head, neck, back, arms, chest, or I'll just grab his hands
2) Neck
3) If we don't have time to do anything, and tries to get carried away with something, like moving his hands close to my pants or under my shirt, I'll grab his hands and hold them so he can't roam anymore.

[Rainbow Brite]

It depends. On his head playing w/ his hair if it's just short 'n playful, sometimes on his face as well. For more heated sessions, anything goes. Sometimes I'll grab his butt to see his reaction

[sageraw]

Behind the head and neck area that is whare mine go. one on the sied of the face as well or around his waist that is the way to do it.

[sft2hrdtco]

One hand on the neck/head and one on the back. The hand on the back likes to wander though :evil2:

[acid rain]

I run my fingers through the guy's hair. And I'd hug him.

[Wrightman84]

uhh a girl usually puts her hands/arms around my upper back, but you can have them grabbing ass or the other side :evil2:, sometimes in my hair too, well i have been told by every girl that i been with that i have sexy great hair.. :cool3: ..even thought i don't think so, but i'm not complaining :P
as for too far.. hmmm ..i guess it depends on how far along with the guy you are and how much time you have, and how far you want to go...
for me, after awhile i will go for her tit, well by after awhile i mean i have been with her and made out with her b4... so hard to talk about too far
i think you have to judge on how far you want to go...

[Roguish Grin]

Usually my hands will be in her hair/on her cheek, chin, neck, etc. I love it when she plays with the back of my hair, go figure..... :roll: We don't tend to get too physical, so that's limiting.... :lol:

[dulcinea]

1. Where do your hands go during a make out session? (Not those that lead to other things, just plain make out sessions)
2. Any hot spots?
3. What are your limits? What do you find uncomfortable?

1. I'm not a big fan of putting my arms around a guy's neck, because I am rather on the short side (4'11") and so it can be awkward for me to reach up there and it makes my arms fall asleep if we're standing. So if we're standing, I generally put my arms around his waist, over top of his if HIS arms are around MY waist. Or I place my hands flat on his chest, palm down, so then it's easy for me to reach up and touch his face and neck.

2. For whatever reason, the left side of my face and neck is really sensitive. The right, not so much, but when he so much as touches my left cheek, ear, etc., I start squirming. Also, I love it when he traces circles on the small of my back with his fingers. *drools*

3. Heh, i find a LOT of things uncomfortable because I am extremely ticklish. But once I get over that, I don't have trouble with him touching me or whatever, if that's what you're asking, so long as we're alone. I'm really not one of those publicly (sp?) affectionate people.

[Sydney123456]

1. Where do your hands go during a make out session? (Not those that lead to other things, just plain make out sessions)
--Girls usually wrap both their arms around the guys neck. Either that, or one arm around the neck and one around the waist. Actually, the possibilities are endless. If you get uncomfortable, you can always move or something. Think of a giant hug. Think of how many ways you can hug. :)

2. Any hot spots?
--Putting your hand lightly on the side of his/her face has a romantic sense to it. I like doing that. Or, moving your hands in a massage type fashion up/down the back, the sides, or shoulders is good too. It's very relaxing.

3. What are your limits? What do you find uncomfortable?
--My personal limits? I don't really have them set, but if I feel uncomfortable at any time while kissing him, I always move his hands. That's a type of communication, and communication is a good thing.

[Madeku]

well lets see

where they go: depends on the mood.. like when it starts out, if you want it romantic, the face.. or maybe rubbing the other person's hand.. that can get really intense! later on, maybe like rubbing the person's sides or tummy. you could put your hand behind their head/neck and pull them closer when you kiss them

Hot Spots: depends, the neck is universal.. pretty much any place that is ticklish or where alot of blood flows close to the surface is sensetive.. and perfect for touching or kissing.. my personal hot spot is my stomach, like if a girl slowly scratches it with her nails or whatnot.. its like, my breath changes and my tummy contracts slightly. its like being tickled while having orgasm. its the closest way i can put it.

Limits: umm, depends on the person you know? if i don't know the person, then i usually dont go for boobies.. if i do, then i might depending on the mood. my personal limit is when the shirts come off. then its time to think "okay where is this going?"

[Sparklies]

1) Sometimes they're holding his hands, sometimes on his face/neck or running through his hair, or rubbing/tickling his back and tummy :P .
2) The hot spot for me would have to be my lower stomach..sometimes he'll tickle me there and it'll just drive me wild.
3) Well, with my boyfriend I don't really have limits...as long as we're alone. It also really depends on the mood of things.

[Wolf]

1) My hands go for her hair, and her side.
2) My hot spots: The base of my back, and my belly.
Hers: just above the pant line; I just run my finger all around the top of her pants...

3) too much... Well too much for me would be when she uses her nails to ever-so-lightly brush the base of my back, barely touching the skin at all... I just want to hold her so tight when she does that, because I know she cares, but I can't do anything about that. (we have ZERO alone time)

[zoe]

1. On his neck.. shoulders.. in his hair.. on his back.. wherever I feel fit.

2. For both of us, our shoulders.

3. Hrm. No limits really. Unless we're standing up and are about to fall over. Then it gets a little uncomfy. :wtf:

[moonangel]

my hand always goes to his jawline first. you know, just gently cupping his face. there's just something terribly affectionate about that. then i might go down to the chest, or some other nether region ... :roll:

[geckosnipp]

:roll: :roll: :roll: <-- i have no hands

i do and i usually would stroke my exs hairline aboive the temple. often times i would put my hand behind her neck and such. I may carese her cheecks, but i have really clkammy hands and would not introduce her to such a torture, if you know what i mean.

As far as going else where, during just strick make out i think thats about it. i would not try going any further but now that was with my ex who got uncomfortable if i just looked at her...

[Margarita]

1. Where do your hands go during a make out session? Depends really. If I know the guy likes having his stomach rubbed, for example, I'll run my fingertips on his tummy. Or I'll run my fingers through his hair, or rub his back. Sometimes some ass-grabbing. :P
Oh, and grabbing him by the sides and pulling him really close.
I miss kissing now.

2. Any hot spots? Sounds weird, but I like it when a guy grabs my ass. :o But that's only if I like him enough. Other than that, my lower back or my hair.

3. What are your limits? What do you find uncomfortable? Depends on the guy and how long I've known him, etc.

[E=mc^2]

One hand on the nape of the back, right above the belt, and one the back of the head/neck.

[__United__]

Her head/face, neck, back, stomach...

For her, it would have to be my head/face, back, arms...

As for limits, well, I am usually the one pushing the limits, so if it is something she doesn't like, she will just move my hands and I won't go back there for the time being. ;)

[skittleknows]

1. Hair, upper arms, torso, back, whatever. See Robbie WIlliam's "Feel" video to get an idea. Caressing a girl is always good :)
2. this may just be for me but there is this one spot on my forehead thats pretty sensitive, when i feel a guy's breath there, i get chills down my spine ;)
3. Grabbing my boobs. Not touching them, grabbing them (it hurts damnit!!!) not respecting limits, because for each person its different

[The Original Taco]

The last post before you skittle, was Jan 8th. A month old. Please for the sake of everyone, please don't go through the pages of these forums and reply to these old ass threads..

[skittleknows]

sorry, didn't mean to... it was on the first page though... :confused:

[Mojo Pin]

1. Where do your hands go during a make out session? (Not those that lead to other things, just plain make out sessions)

Usualy i'll hold her waste, or maybe play around with her boobs and touch her butt.

2. Any hot spots?

I absolutly LOVE it when she kisses my neck.

3. What are your limits? What do you find uncomfortable?

I feel pretty much comfortable with her touching anywhere and doing anything.