She's more experienced than I'll ever be!?!?!?

[The Unknown Songwriter]

Okay, I just met this girl and we've been getting to know eachother, and to be honest, I think there is some mutual attraction going on, I know I think she gorgious. The problem is, since we've been talking, she has told me some stuff that is just kinda scary to me. She doesn't even know how many guys she's kissed, and she's kissed as many girls as I have. (although she said that if she wasn't with someone right now, she'd fix that for me) Is the experience gap gonna be so bad that I am repulsive to her?(I've only kissed 2 girls, and only 1 that I realy liked)
TUSW

[Deidre]

One word: No.

The amount of people one has kissed says very little, and not that much about 'experience' either. Heck, my boyfriend has kissed more guys (and girls) than I have. I'm still his first long-term relationship. Technically, he had more experience than me in all areas of physical intimacy. Mentally, however...

As for does this propose a problem? Well, does "If I wasn't with someone, I'd fix that for you..." sound like "oh my god, you're such an underdeveloped repulsive freak!" to you?

[goofball]

what is the matter with you people adn the fallign for the girls with the boyfriends thing?

if a girl has a boyfriend it's time to write her off (heh, unless she starts pursuiing you).

Just because a girl is actually talking to you doens't mean you have to tag along like a little puppy hopeing magiclaly she'll just one day push you down and strip all your clothes off, that never happens, this isn't cinemax

[geckosnipp]

:roll: :roll: :roll: <-- lucky you

Dont think of it as being a bad thing. There are many good points to this. First of all, you get the enjoy the benifits of this. She probably has had much experience kissing, but that doesnt mean yhour going to be bad at it. In fact, there probably wount be any differenece. But if there is, learn. Kissing is an art, but its no AP course. Soon you two will be walking around with chapped lips all day :-)

[chiukit]

haha goofball... take a lil time understandin his post first.
he says he thinks there's mutual attraction... so screw the bf.
" if i wasn wif someone, i'd fix that for u "
to me thats sayin~ if i didnt have bf... i'd kiss u or... go out wif u. *shrugs*


but to answer the topic
more experience doesnt mean 'skill' in kissing...
some people are just natural at it... some arent.
some are good right from their first kiss...
others take time.

[super_chevy2000]

No, don't worry about it.

[IGemini]

Let me say that the number of people kissed does not mean at all that they are good at it. My first ex tried to suffocate me with her tongue, and the next one kissed like a fish. Both had been in relationships that had gone that far and had kissed a lot.

The other thing is that pleasure depends on the person.

I consider myself good at kissing, because I know what NOT to do and how to not do it.

[Hippie96321]

It has nothing at all to do with how many people you've kissed. As long as you don't swallow her face you'll be just fine. Everyone kisses different so while you might not be the same as other people she's kissed you'll be interesting nonetheless.

[chiukit]

also every girl has her own interpretations of what a good kiss is like.


that's why when you're just starting to make out with a girl -- let her lead.
get a feel of how she likes to kiss. and then change your style to accomodate hers.

[sweet_angel]

Just live and learn.

[Wrightman84]

i must agree with chiu again
let her lead then adapt