Who do I contact?

[Deidre]

Hello all,

Your unfriendly neighbourhood moderator with some more friendly advice on general forum stuff:

If you have a question, a complaint against someone, or just need to get in touch with the staff for any reason, you can send us a PM.

For issues only an administrator can handle, i.e. someone with the access to the internal workings of the forum software, sending naked photos:

The Sage (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=568)
Kuky (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=30)
Jared (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=1)
kuju (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=20)

For anything else, especially if related to specific sub-fora:

Rammstein39 (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=530) (Mirror Mirror, Creative Corner)
Automorphism (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=4023) (Flirtation Location, The Game)
Tootsie Pop (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=186) (The Game, The Long Haul)
Deidre (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=171) (Down in the Dumps)
moonangel (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=72) (The Sex Shop)
water nymph (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=21) (The Long Haul)
Prism (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=330) (Friends and Family, Media Mayhem)
Gezus (http://www.relationship-forums.com/member.php?u=1739) (General Discussion)

Of course, if you feel more comfortable with any particular staff member, feel free to PM him or her and we will help and/or represent you in further discussion with the staff.

[kuju]

I also moderate the Sex Shop, and the Nurse's Office....

[OvershareDude]

You moderate the sex shop? What about the forum though?

[kuju]

I feel like there's a joke in there somewhere, but my sleep deprived, staying-up-all-night brain cannot find it.

[OvershareDude]

re-reading it myself... my girlfriends frequent words spring to mind...

"You're not as funny as you think you are"

[agatlin]

The system doesn't allow one to even private message administrators until "some small number of posts" has been reached. I have a topic I would like to discuss with an administrator but have no way to contact them. It's not a problem but I would just rather not post it here. If an admin could email me or Skype me, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you!

[kuju]

Administrators generally do not discuss issues that could be posted in the general forums privately with members. Post as an alias, keep names out of your post and you should be safe. Or you could contribute to the forums for a bit, help some others out, and then PM one of the moderators and see if they're willing to give you private advice. (heads up, I don't) I believe it's only about 5-10 posts before you can PM. This is to prevent spammers from private messaging our members with their spam. Most spam bots won't post first.