Eye Contact While I'm Giving Him Oral Sex

[candykisses]

I have no problem with giving head- but for some reason, I cannot look at the guy while I am doing it. I feel stupid and clueless and kinda slutty. Question- Would guys rather you look at them while you are doing it? Is that more of a turn on? Thanks! :roll:

[Deidre]

I may be a girl but I know my boyfriend finds it a turn-on. Well, he likes to watch me in just about any situation, but especially then, and he sure doesn't mind me looking back at him. :P

[goofball]

let's remember teh main rule.

if you are touching his penis, he is liking it.

if you are licking/sucking on his penis, he is liking it.

you cannot go wrong in this department, unless you use sharp objects like teeth, or nails.

[Deidre]

you cannot go wrong in this department, unless you use sharp objects like teeth, or nails.

Right. Unless you're extremely talented, nails and teeth go pretty much everywhere but privates... and I do mean everywhere. :devious:

Remember the golden rule...
Guys want a catholic school girl when they show her off to their friends but in bed they want... wait... they want a catholic school girl there as well. Hrm. :o
Okay, okay... outside of bed, virtues are all good... think Virgin Mary. Especially when parents are around. In bed... think Mary Magdalene (if you believe she really was a prostitute, that is). :lol:
(not entirely serious of course)

[JohnSmith]

i like when the girl looks @ me in the eyes, it's a turn on
:o :o :o :o :o

[Hatlicks18]

Look him right in the eyes, smile, and gulp it down like you would die without it. Guys love that. Its more intimate and it looks like your enjoying yourself.

Brian

[SupernaturalNympho]

Maybe you feel a little embarrassed because when you look at him, it kind of hits you--- "You're giving him a blowjob! So try this: look up at him, make eye contact, then look back down. You don't have to stare at the guy (actually, that sounds kind of creepy) just look up at him occasionally...even if he's not looking back, sneak a peek. It can't hurt you :) Eventually you'll get over your shyness :)

[surfy_dude]

Hell yes is all i can say!!!
It is one of the biggest turn-ons ever!
and while your looking at your boyfriend, give him a cheeky look
and be creative. its the biggest turn on ever when ur girl
looks at you while giving head! :wink:

[SoSweetAngel]

I read in a magazine somewhere that is a turn on...but I would find it a bit weird myself (I'm a girl).
Usually I'm facing the other way as well :evil2:


:evil2: <---- notice how that smiley is a slightly odd colour compared to the others...!

[Tootsie Pop]

I look him in the eyes on and off when i do it. I just like to see his reactions. :cool3:

[Madeku]

hell, id be so happy if that happened to me. well aside from the obvious fact id be getting head. but I really love eye contact. altho like constant eyes locked would kinda freak me out.

when its not in your mouth, try looking at his parts. like, examining it. im sure you'll be fine..

[Goddess33]

well if you are brave enough to suck his dick shouldnt you be brave enough to make eye contact while doin it?..just my humble opinion

[Tootsie Pop]

Not necessarily Goddess, there is a certain intimacy when looking in their face when doing it. Some people dont like that very much.

[zoe]

Think about it this way candykisses: If you look at him, you can see his face enjoying what you're doing and that'll definately make you more confident and make you look up at him a hell of a lot more. :D

[zoe]

I don't even like for him to look at me.


I can't stand that! I can look at him, but it makes me kind of uncomfortable when he's looking at me. I have no idea why..

But now that I think about it, he's been closing his eyes for so long that I wouldn't really know how it feels for him to watch me haha.

(Wonder what he thinks about this. Hmm..)

[Deidre]

I can't stand that! I can look at him, but it makes me kind of uncomfortable when he's looking at me. I have no idea why..

I used to feel like that, but it passed, mostly because I got used to it. Now I don't at all mind him looking at me, during any type of sexual activity.

If he's looking when he doesn't have to he obviously likes what he sees, right? You should be glad when he's looking at you (or at least remind yourself of that when he does). You turn him on. He likes to look at you... and he can't belileve you're his girlfriend, so he has to look at you in amazement. ;)

[Barefoot Matt]

Look him right in the eyes, smile, and gulp it down like you would die without it. Guys love that. Its more intimate and it looks like your enjoying yourself.

Definitely true, but I have one thing to add: You have to actually be enjoying yourself. Don't pretend. That's as bad as faking an orgasm.

[Barefoot Matt]

Not necessarily Goddess, there is a certain intimacy when looking in their face when doing it. Some people dont like that very much.

IMHO, sex has no point without intimacy. If there's no intimacy, it's no better than masturbating. :roll:

[nicruns]

eye contact while having any form of sex is the ultimate act of intimacy. you are both vulnerable and letting oneanother see you in a compromising position. I think it is wonderful and an incredible turn on

[Tootsie Pop]

IMHO, sex has no point without intimacy. If there's no intimacy, it's no better than masturbating. :roll:


I completely agree! Sometimes I dont understnad why some people... cant stand intimacy. :( its the best feeling in the world. :)

[spittinvenom2003]

hey when my girl does it, she dont look at me at all, she says she is too embarrassed to, i would like her to but it dont matter, it all feels good to me :mrgreen:

[kuju]

I don't mind looking at him, and him looking at me during ANY sexual activity EXCEPT for kissing. it's damn freaky to open your eyes for a second and find him watching you...

[Tootsie Pop]

I hate it when I open my eyes during kissing and see him looking back at me too.. because he always thinks that if I open my eyes that I "dont want to be with him" or something. he takes it as an insult. (But didnt he open his eyes when he saw me?) I just dont understand boys sometimes. Oh well.

[zoe]

I've decided that the only reason I don't let him watch is because it might look weird, or like I'm doing it wrong. Hell if I know.. but it seems a better idea for me if his eyes are closed and he can't see what I'm doing - more mystery I guess?

But anyway, I'm not stopping him from looking at me, he just closes his eyes automatically because he figures I'll get mad if he doesn't (I objected once and he closes his eyes everytime since haha). :roll: I think he's waiting for me to tell him otherwise hehe.

[Delita]

Well it's either close my eyes or look up, and looking up makes me dizzy. :o

[zoe]

Well it's either close my eyes or look up, and looking up makes me dizzy. :o


How does it make you dizzy??

(What if your head was propped up on something?)

[Delita]

Everything looks so far away, and it's... idunno! It's not like the feeling that I'm falling, but... argh, I really don't know, haha.

[chiukit]

Remember the golden rule...
Guys want a catholic school girl when they show her off to their friends but in bed they want... wait... they want a catholic school girl there as well. Hrm. :o


ahhh... my gf dressed up as a schoolgirl yesterday... frickin' drove me crazy~ :evil2:
guuuaahhhhh..

anyway... guys like it whenever you're down there... so whatever you do [except hurting him].. he'll like it.. plus.. by looking at him whilst you're down there.. you could tease him.. turning him on even more..

[zoe]

Everything looks so far away, and it's... idunno! It's not like the feeling that I'm falling, but... argh, I really don't know, haha.


You are so weird lol.

Next time, sit up and we'll see if you don't lose your vision :P K?

[Delita]

Ok! :D