How to rekindle her interest..?

[hk116]

Last semester, a girl and I both started liking each other... We lived in the same dorm area, so she even chased after me twice after class just to be with me...

The second time she 'happened' to be walking back after class, I told her we should be friends, partially because I was a little intimidated by how aggressive she was being even though she had a boyfriend. Now I realize none of that should have mattered.

I really, really regret saying we should be friends, but at the time, being stupid, I thought that was the best choice and that it would be easy to just shut my emotions off like that.

Ever since, she hasn't been the same towards me either.. and it became a little complicated . I am not sure how she feels towards me..i guess I'm not sure how to feel towards her either...but I would like to try again. We both try to act like everything's fine but I have the feeling she's not really okay...

If I want her back, please tell me what to do... i will see this girl mostly in class sitting with a mutual friend...and probably hang out with her every now and then through the mutual friend. Should I be direct or continue to 'be myself' and act like everything's fine?

[Kuky]

Meh just get her thinking/talking about the fun times you had together (like, back when she was chasing you and stuff). Then go from there.

[phasesofthemoon]

What do you mean "you want her back?" Did you ever really have her if she had a boyfriend at the time? I think you need to elaborate about the dynamics of your relationship before we can give you advice that would actually apply to your situation.

[JohnnyBravo205]

Just approach her directly, as i guy i dont like a girl who "beats around the bush", you should just confront her. If your that interested in her, just ask her to go get a coffee one day or something. If shes into you shell say yes.. its harmless