kissing and telling

[sageraw]

if the kiss ment nothing would you still tell your b/f or g/f? evan if their was no way they would ever find out?

[BlondTgr]

I'm pretty sure I'd be completely honest...truth always comes out, there's really no way there isn't a teeny, tiny, little chance, you know? I'd make sure to say that it meant absolutely nothing.

[dulcinea]

actually, a guy friend of mine kissed me the day before my boyfriend and I started going out officially. I am going to tell him, it's just that I don't want to randomly blurt it out. Because I would want to know if some girl kissed HIM. And honestly, it was completely platonic. He was just being a gentleman at the end of the evening because, well, that's how my friend is.

[Roguish Grin]

You always have to be upfront about everything, or else it comes and bites you in the ass later. I lost a gf once because I didn't tell her about talking with another girl, and rumors started.....grrrrr.....anyhow, if I had just told her up front, I wouldn't have lost her trust......

[Sydney123456]

I've already proven myself unable to hide something from my current boyfriend. Even if I wanted to conceal something as minute and miniscule as that, I couldn't. So, I'd end up telling him.

[Crash Override]

If it was a kiss on the lips, then of course I'd tell her (although I probably just wouldn't do it in the first place).

If it was a kiss on the cheek, then no, I wouldn't, because I kiss lots of female friends on the cheek. To me, that would be like telling my girlfriend every time I shook hands with someone. :lol:

[Deidre]

I would tell him. Most definitely. Of course, I'm not very likely to put myself in that position in the first place.

[acid rain]

I would tell him. It's always good to be completely honest with your bf/gf. If you don't tell, then later it might have consequences.

[chiukit]

pssh... i wouldnt tell.


what they dont know wont hurt them.
and ignorance is bliss.


you know that question that is asked?
which do you prefer.. the truth that draws the tear
or the lie that draws the smile?


everyone chooses the truth..
but inside.. it's the lie.. or so i've found.

[Danae]

Probably not...and I wonder why I'm paranoid about people catching me in lies :roll:


Of course, I know it's best to tell. I just don't know if I would or not.

[IGemini]

If it would come up, I would admit it. Telling the truth doesn't include telling right off. If I could, I would like keep the pain of truth to myself rather than the two of us.

[Wrightman84]

can i change my vote, i agree with chiu...
ignorence is bliss
and what you are thinking inside is that you wouldn't tell em..
ya'll know your thinking "oh ya i would tell them" but when it happens you wont tell them because you don't wanna mess up what you have
i know taht i wouldn't do anything to hurt my gf [if i had one] and i would always tell the truth because i can't stand to surpress lies..
now there is the point that i do lie to my mom, but that is different she is my mom.. BIG difference..

just thought i point out the other side of this argument, just like chiu did

[JessiMari]

No....not necessary.

[Sydney123456]

you know that question that is asked?
which do you prefer.. the truth that draws the tear
or the lie that draws the smile?


I am VERY pro-lie here. In most instances, I think ignorance is bliss...but that's MOST, not all.

But, if the kiss started altering my actions around my boyfirned...I find it his right to know.

Or maybe I'm mixing up the meanign of these kisses we're talking about. Meaningless shit and not that important? Or, deep kisses with someone else?

[super_chevy2000]

If I ever done that, I would go ahead and tell my bf about it so he would here it from me instead of from someone else.

[eatshit]

Like dulcinea said, I'd want to know if my bf kissed someone else too. So it's only fair that I wouldn't lie about anything like that either.

[ShRt SwEEt*n*SexY]

honesty is the best policy.

[.ass]

I wouldn't tell her. It would only make things worse. Especially if I don't plan on doing it again then there's really no point of telling her, it'll just get her upset.

[Wolf]

I would tell them... but..


A kiss will *never* mean nothing to me. It always means something.

[OutlawedJoker]

I once tried to get away with not telling, and my girlfriend found out anyhow. I wouldn't want to take that kind of chance again... or i just wouldnt do it in the first place... that works too.

[goofball]

i wouldn't tell either

[*after8*]

i wouldnt tell.
hell, ive done it before and not told. heaps of times.
he hasnt found out iether