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The Unknown Songwriter
September 12th, 2002, 11:54 PM
I just got with this girl about a week ago, and today we finaly kissed,(for real, we had 1 previous peck, initiated by her) and it was soooooo different than anything I have ever felt before. The only other girl I've kissed later told me that she hated it when we kissed and that she was so scared of kissing that we had to break up. This kiss today was so totaly different. It was the most sensual moment of my life, the problem is that I can't stop wondering if she felt the same way about it; I used to think my ex was as extatic about it as I was, but it turned out she wasn't. I can't get over my fear of rejection.
TUSW
super_chevy2000
September 13th, 2002, 12:10 AM
First of all, just enjoy it and don't stress so much. If it does bother you THAT bad talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. She can probably ease your mind if you talk to her.
Asphodelle13
September 13th, 2002, 11:24 AM
Don't overthink a kiss...I know its important for that magic to be mutual...but you can't go into kissing all stressed with the fear of rejection...A kiss is just a kiss...If you are nervous to talk to her about it(that would be the best thing to do) then perhaps pay better attention to her body language in the future...Give her a spontaneous one and see how she reacts...And try to leave the past(and your ex) where they belong.
Jebus
September 13th, 2002, 02:46 PM
The only other girl I've kissed later told me that she hated it when we kissed and that she was so scared of kissing that we had to break up.

That has to be one of the worst excusses I've ever heard.
JessiMari
September 13th, 2002, 07:30 PM
The only other girl I've kissed later told me that she hated it when we kissed and that she was so scared of kissing that we had to break up.

That has to be one of the worst excusses I've ever heard.

LoL....I know...that sux tho...sorry to read that... :-?
The Unknown Songwriter
September 13th, 2002, 08:21 PM
I WAS RIGHT, I WISH I WAS WRONG, I CAN'T BELIVE I KEEP DOING THIS
TUSW
Asphodelle13
September 13th, 2002, 10:51 PM
I WAS RIGHT, I WISH I WAS WRONG, I CAN'T BELIVE I KEEP DOING THIS
TUSW

What do you mean?
The Unknown Songwriter
September 14th, 2002, 12:28 AM
Holy shit I can't be coherent in anger!!!
I was freaking out but in retrospect of a couple hours, and another talk with her, I am less confused. She gave me a little speach about how we were moving too fast and needed to slow down, but then I realized that that was what I need too.
TUSW