What to do now?

[Jack1991]

1st off hello 1st post :D

Ok then,So i was out for my 18th birthday this weekend,me and 3 lads night went awesome so in are second to last club,we met these four girls outside,started chatting they asked us to go to the next club with them

Anyway long Story Short

this one girl,all night Dancing and Stuff giving me the "Aww your so Lovely" after the clubbs shut we walked them home,Cheaky lil Snog,then after getting her number i get her number,she tells my mate "im not shy,i dont think he can handle me" And i text her that night asking if she got back ok,and also so she got my number.

the thing was she told me she still lives were her BF but there not together,but he wont let her go,they also hae a kid together,so i got a phone call off her but it was her BF asking "who the "****" Am i" and "watch my back"

is this a case off..just forget it? i mean i met girls before who have had kids,but to be honest,if it wasnt for her being so up front with me i wouldnt have gone near her,the phrase "Out of my Leauge" comes to mind

Sorry for the Extra extra long post,and if Anyone takes the time to read and give a second voice that would be great.

[keydow]

i would just move on. whether she is with the guy or not its a messy situation. they live together and have a kid. if she really wanted to leave she would have done it. something is keeping her there and i dont believe she will leave. also these girls are generally as much trouble as the guys.

there are way too many normal unattached girls out there for you to get caught up on one who only after 1 night is causing you this much trouble. go out next weekend with you mates and find another girl.

[violet]

Agreed, too much baggage and it's already stressing you out. Move on and find something better!

[Deidre]

Drama is bad enough when you get into it unknowingly...

And to top it off you just turned 18. You've got far more important things to think about than getting tangled up in someone else's ugly and potentially violent drama.

[hmmmm]

Do yourself a favor, change your number and loose her number.