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Coyote Loco
August 11th, 2002, 03:18 PM
Okay, we know we all swoon when the guy we like gets us flowers... but come on, admit it... roses aren't very orignal are they? Gorgeous and expensize, yes, but does it really require that much thought to go a buy a dozen roses? Naaaah...
Now, what personally makes me melt completely is when a guy buys me, not just typical flowers (daisies, roses, carnations; etc)... but when he remembers or learns my favorite type of flowers and buys me those... Because that means he has been paying enough attention to me to know or remember what my favorite flower is and that makes the gift even more meaningful...
So, girls (or guys :wink: ), what's your favorite flower and have you ever received it from a guy (or girl :lol: )?
Me, I adore Gladiolas... And for my birthday last year (or was it two years ago :o ) my ex got me a half dozen assorted Galds and left them in my locker at school with a really sweet note attached...
*sighs*
That was one of the sweetest things ever...
goofball
August 11th, 2002, 03:22 PM
will you explain why girls are such suckers for flowers?
they literally fix everything
Coyote Loco
August 11th, 2002, 03:31 PM
Because deep down we are all romantics...
Asking for me to explain why girls like flowers is like asking you to explain why guys love the fantasy of a naked chick showing up on their doorstep with beer... It's nothing that can be explained... All it can be is acknowledged as true...
:P
Nikster
August 11th, 2002, 03:42 PM
Haha...right on Kel.
I don't know that I really have a favorite flower...I've gotten roses a couple times, but I do really like tulips.....have I ever received them? Yea right.....not yet. It's more romantic to me when he does cute stuff like remember anniversaries or silly little things, I think flowers are overrated personally *shrugs*
goofball
August 11th, 2002, 03:43 PM
i can explain that.
a naked hot chic showing up on your doorstep means several things
-you're getting laid with a hot chic
- she's cool/fun/easygoing enough to show up naked with beer (i.e. it says somethinig about who she is)
-you get a free sixpack of beer
Coyote Loco
August 11th, 2002, 03:51 PM
:lol:
Wow, the universe makes sense now...
:wink:
Heh, on a side note... How many guys have received flowers?
Nikster
August 11th, 2002, 03:56 PM
I gave a guy a flower once.......but I felt gay doing it......I"m such a dork.....:-?
goofball
August 11th, 2002, 04:08 PM
we'd rather receive a pizza, a sandwhich, a screwdriver, anything that would be useful instead of flowers
Coyote Loco
August 11th, 2002, 04:11 PM
Puh... fine then, let's be really romantic and just exchange condoms...
:lol:
Danae
August 11th, 2002, 04:18 PM
Weird...Chiu and I were just discussing this last night!
Me? I love red roses and multi-colored carnations. Get me flowers...I'm yours :mrgreen:
Coyote Loco
August 11th, 2002, 04:29 PM
*gets down on one knee in front of Linds with roses*
:lol:
super_chevy2000
August 11th, 2002, 04:54 PM
[quote]Asking for me to explain why girls like flowers is like asking you to explain why guys love the fantasy of a naked chick showing up on their doorstep with beer... It's nothing that can be explained... All it can be is acknowledged as true...
That is so true and very well stated.
My 2 favorite flowers are roses and daisies. My bf has once ordered a mix vase of red roses and daisies which I thought was really sweet because he thought to mix them.
It's ultimately about the thought behind the flowers and not the flowers themselves that mean so much to a girl.
BlondTgr
August 11th, 2002, 05:06 PM
My favorites are roses, tulips, hehe I even like lillies of the valley or bluebells... :)
Never gotten a flower though. :-?
sageraw
August 11th, 2002, 05:10 PM
I love those orange roses with the red/crimson tips. I think those are the best to get, then tulips then posibly carnations, but carnations are more some thing you give a friend. I have gotten red roses for my birth day once from this huge crush of mine, I was in 3rd grade. Ha ha well that was my first gift of roses any ways. He also gave me x man trading cards! He knew just what I wanted. lol :lol:
1Diamond Tiara
August 11th, 2002, 06:24 PM
I love tulips so delicate :) maybe they became my fav after a fateful V Day :)
Coyote Loco
August 11th, 2002, 06:37 PM
Ooh, that reminded me... the one kind of rose I love are those really pretty lavender colored ones... Aww... I got one of those once too...
:mrgreen:
Heh, but that was from my best friend...
:P
Aero
August 11th, 2002, 08:49 PM
Asking for me to explain why girls like flowers is like asking you to explain why guys love the fantasy of a naked chick showing up on their doorstep with beer... It's nothing that can be explained... All it can be is acknowledged as true... Desire for sex is in our instinct. And a booze to boot, wee. Ok I've done my part. Your turn.
Coyote Loco
August 11th, 2002, 08:59 PM
:lol:
Shush you... I was just giving an example which turns out to be a bad one...
:P
Fine... when girls get flowerswe see it as meaning that the guy who gave them to us took the time to go out and buy and was thinking about us... I guess we see it as symbolic of how much they care for us...
goofball
August 11th, 2002, 09:34 PM
i think women just wanna see us wasting money.
flowers, jewlery. you never see them asking for anything useful :-)
last christmas, my mom gets jewlery, my dad get a digital laser level. Talk about the difference between men and women
dek
August 11th, 2002, 11:47 PM
I'll keep in mind to get flowers for my first date when it happens. My mom used to be a flourist so she taught me all kinds of flowers to buy girls. Too bad I'm terrible with remembering their names :-?
sageraw
August 11th, 2002, 11:50 PM
you know what makes me happy is when he brings flowers for my mom and dad on the first date that is a good way to get the parents on your sied and the girl too.
BlondTgr
August 11th, 2002, 11:51 PM
you know what makes me happy is when he brings flowers for my mom and dad on the first date that is a good way to get the parents on your sied and the girl too.
That's sweet. :)
Coyote Loco
August 11th, 2002, 11:52 PM
Hmm, for first date just keep it simple... like maybe a small bunch of daisies... sweet and thoughtful... she'd love it...
:)
Wrightman84
August 12th, 2002, 12:41 AM
ya another side note... even tho kel said it
but how much and what for a first date? as in how many flowers.. and what type on a first date..
Coyote Loco
August 12th, 2002, 12:47 AM
First date always keep it simple if you are going to bring flowers... Not a type of flower that has special meaning generally attached to it (like roses)... Daises, carnations, your own hand picked wildflowers... And a small amount...
At that point in your relationship it's just the thought behind it that counts... When in doubt keep it small and simple... Simplicity is often more beautiful then extravagent...
:)
wowzers
August 12th, 2002, 12:47 AM
i despise getting flowers... what the hell am i supposed to do with em? watch em wither away?
it seems really pointless... maybe like 1 rose or something... but a lot jus kinda piss me off
ok im weird
but i mean something useful like chocolates or a pooper scooper would be nice
goofball
August 12th, 2002, 12:52 AM
i despise getting flowers... what the hell am i supposed to do with em? watch em wither away?
it seems really pointless... maybe like 1 rose or something... but a lot jus kinda piss me off
ok im weird
but i mean something useful like chocolates or a pooper scooper would be nice
awesome
Nikster
August 12th, 2002, 12:53 AM
but i mean something useful like chocolates or a pooper scooper would be nice
a pooper scooper?!?! :lol:
I would crack up laughing right there if I ever got one of those....but I can see your point, I would rather get like a cd or something.
Coyote Loco
August 12th, 2002, 12:53 AM
*shrugs*
Everyone has their own opinion...
:mrgreen:
wowzers
August 12th, 2002, 12:55 AM
well im in dire need of a pooper scooper... heh... ya know, dont wanna get caught by the city for not pickin up my puppy's doo doo
hunny
August 12th, 2002, 09:46 AM
Gotta admit, I'm a sucker for flowers too.
They don't fix EVERYthing but they sure do help.
My favorite are white roses, and I also like the different colored roses, like multis, or orange, etc.
Any flowers are nice to get.
Once this guy I was dating opened my car door for me to get in, and there was a rose on the seat. Sweet!
Flowers for my mom and/or dad? WTF??Sounds like too much of a suck up to me.
acid rain
August 12th, 2002, 01:22 PM
I'm a major sucker for flowers. Roses are my favorite, especially when they're either pink or orange.
I also love getting tiger lilies and chrysanthemums. I think a guy who gives me flowers is sweet cause that means he knows how much I'm a flower freak.
Wolf
August 12th, 2002, 07:07 PM
[quote]First date always keep it simple if you are going to bring flowers... Not a type of flower that has special meaning generally attached to it (like roses)... Daises, carnations, your own hand picked wildflowers... And a small amount...
At that point in your relationship it's just the thought behind it that counts... When in doubt keep it small and simple... Simplicity is often more beautiful then extravagent...
:)
Yes, simple is often the best choice.
Instead of a dozen red roses... Try getting a single, white rose.
super_chevy2000
August 12th, 2002, 08:31 PM
See, roses are a classic that never get old . . . :wink:
Justice
August 14th, 2002, 04:46 AM
Call me old fashioned but I have bought girls a dozen roses or single roses, I usually end up getting them white ones for some reason.....
So my favorite flower is a rose.........
It's beautiful, yet at the same time, it's thorns keep you from it........*sighs*
-G
Jebus
August 14th, 2002, 02:21 PM
When I go on a first date with a girl, I always get her one flower. It's usually a white rose or some colorful flower. I don't like getting red roses, I just find then plain. I look for the one flower that sets all the others apart. Then again, I don't want the flower to be the climax of the date.
chiukit
August 14th, 2002, 04:27 PM
Weird...Chiu and I were just discussing this last night!
Me? I love red roses and multi-colored carnations. Get me flowers...I'm yours :mrgreen:
we did? :o
Heath
August 19th, 2002, 11:57 PM
Flowers do fix everything..and thats just fine!! :) They're even better when your not trying to say your sorry...if you just show up one day with a flower for her, out of the blue, she will completely melt in your arms...
Give me flowrers and I'm yours
Heath
August 19th, 2002, 11:58 PM
hehe, i should have quoted Danae on that one..whoops, but yea, I agree with it..
Roguish Grin
August 20th, 2002, 04:26 AM
*hands white rose to Heather*
Oh, wait, you're already mine... :P
But, yeah, I'm big on giving roses myself...dunno why, jus always seems like a good thing to do... *shrugs* Call me old-fashioned too...
khshamrock
August 20th, 2002, 06:26 PM
One of the nightclubs I go to gives out single roses during the night, for guys to give to girls. But I don't bother, b/c I think it's unoriginal.
I reckon the only time to give flowers to a girl are on certain occasions, ie. your first date b/c you're unlikely to know what else to get her, when you're feeling apologetic, and on Valentine's day as part of a bigger gift.
Heath
August 20th, 2002, 06:34 PM
*hands white rose to Heather*
Oh, wait, you're already mine... :P
But, yeah, I'm big on giving roses myself...dunno why, jus always seems like a good thing to do... *shrugs* Call me old-fashioned too...
Aww...thanks, hunny!!
mmm..yea, I am already yours, but just for the beautiful white rose that I love, you get some extra cuddle time..hehe...actually, you can have as much cuddle time as you would like :wink:
Amanda06
August 20th, 2002, 06:41 PM
Alright :-x ...WHERE is my fower...everyone else gets one, NOW WHERES MINE?!?! Michael can't give me one either, Heather said so... :P
Heath
August 20th, 2002, 06:45 PM
Yes, yes, I am a selfish person...hehe..AND HE IS MINE! so :P Mandy, find your own forum bf cause you can't have mine! Not even a copy...hehe...there are no more copies, I got them all....hehe....I LOVE FLOWERS!
What can I say? I'm a sucker for flowers and poetry...you get me flowers, I'll be yours(as you already know) and you write me a poem...I'll just fall in love right then and there...:) I like both..Flowers are perfect, they make me unbelievably happy...
*looks at the beautiful single white rose in its vase and smiles* You gotta love it..
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