first time for us both!

[spikey06]

hey guys...

my girlfriend and i decided that we do want to have sex. there is no question about us not being ready...we ARE ready to have it with each other.

any tips for me on how to make it as good as possible, considering it is the first time for us both?

thanks. :)

[__United__]

Basically, just stay relaxed and enjoy the ride. ;)

[kuju]

let him do the work.
use FOREPLAY! make sure you're excited and wet.
think about RELAXING.
use lube... if ya like.
expect blood
expect pain
RELAX
put an old towel under your butt
don't worry about the blood...it happens, just use the towel to clean it up. And it might not happen at all!
there might NOT be pain, but be prepred for a little.
RELAX

[spikey06]

im pretty sure we are going to end up having sex this week when i go over to her house.

so ill make sure to take it very slow and have something handy to clean up blood if she bleeds.

anything else?

thanks for the help. :)

[BigJim]

1. birth control
2. sex lubricant

[spikey06]

yes, she is on the pill. :) and i plan on using a condom.

[nicruns]

now that contraception is taken care of may i reccomened being gentle and attentive to her. look in her eyes tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love her. It will ease her mind. And again BE GENTLE!