Should I Kiss Her?

[Revolutionary]

Theres a girl that I've known for 3 years that I really like and am close friends with. The past few months we've hung out and talked a lot and she considers me a close friend and everything like that, but shes been flirting with me and giving some serious signals that she likes me. The problem I have is that last year we tried the whole going out thing and it led to one of the nastiest conflicts I've ever had with a friend (long story). We've worked passed it though and are really close now. I want to kiss her to see if she does like me in the intimate sense though. But I just don't want to repeat history at the same time and end up fighting again. Any input on what I should do?

[Jebus]

If it was me in your shoes, I'd kiss her. If there's a connection, then we could go with it from there. But, if there's nothing, well at least we tried.

[chiukit]

i would kiss her as well. but i would not just go up to her and kiss her just like that.

[Danae]

Wait till the moment/mood is right and do it. Bad timing can totally screw you over.

[AbnormalBob]

if your willing to take the risk...kiss her

if your not willing to take the risk...dont

[wowzers]

danae is totally right on

[Roguish Grin]

Wait till the moment/mood is right and do it. Bad timing can totally screw you over.

Exactly.

[Minimus]

I say you be ballzy, and go ahead and kiss her...If she doesnt like it. Then..I guess you can just tell her how you feel about her..and see how things turn out

[goofball]

it's true that timing is important. but waiting for the perfect moment is an awful idea.

you have to create the perfect moment.

just ask her to go on a walk with you at night or something, that's always worked well for me