Very odd mood switches/ consistency.

[awrio]

I don't really follow this girl's thought pattern.

She will send me texts/ messages ranging from things like (I quote):

"You're the sweetest baby i love you. I never stop thinking about you :)"

To stuff sounding like it's one of my guy friends hitting me up: "Hey dude nah im just hangin. what you up to", and everything in between

And I'm staying completely consistent. Talking to her like any boyfriend would. It's almost hilarious how sporadically her mood toward me drastically changes. It's like she goes back and forth from friend mode to girlfriend mode for no reason.

I'm pretty thrown off, and whenever I confront her about it it always ends in hell, so I've just dropped the subject. It's not too big a deal, and I'm not horribly bothered by it, its just annoying is all, and It's hard to keep up with it. I know every girl has mood swings, but this is just kinda weird. Thoughts?

[automorphism]

Honestly I don't see how your examples indicate huge mood swings. In one case she was asking what you were doing, and in another she was expressing her feelings. Since you came here I assume there's something more? Can you give another example of her mood swings?

[awrio]

I suppose it's her mannerisms that get to me. She will go from calling me things like "baby, love, darling" to "bro, dude, man", and for no real reason. She sent me that first affectionate message (above) last night, and this morning sent me a text in reply to me asking about coming up to see her next week (long distance) which sounded like something one of my homies would say. And I don't have homies. I suppose that first message was a bit of an extreme example though. It's just hard to give good examples.

Yes, I'm probably thinking too much, but I've never been with a girl who switches the way she acts toward me so sporadically and frequently. It's not like a bad mood/good mood thing which is the weird thing. It's just different "modes".

[automorphism]

Maybe there is something else, but it doesn't sound like there's any problem. People can't be affectionate all the time. If it's not a good/bad mood thing, then that's good. Perhaps you're just feeling a bit starved for attention sometimes, and you just want her to be affectionate a bit more often than she is?

[AustiN]

i have learned not to take text messages to seriously unless you're really close to the girl, i used to be glued to every text i would get but now i am much more realistic with how girls view texting i think...

[awrio]

Maybe there is something else, but it doesn't sound like there's any problem. People can't be affectionate all the time. If it's not a good/bad mood thing, then that's good. Perhaps you're just feeling a bit starved for attention sometimes, and you just want her to be affectionate a bit more often than she is?

The way she acts toward me sometimes just doesn't add up to how she feels about me. This is a long term relationship, and we don't see ourselves parting ways at any point in the future. Maybe I'm still getting used to her comfortableness.

On the point of it not being good/bad moods, I suppose what would be her worse mood is her "friend" mood. She can be a bit shove offish and pointlessly mean when she's like that, but it's nothing huge. So i suppose it is a good/bad thing after all.