Should I warn her when I am about to...

[BANSHEE4785]

:D When receiving a blowjob, when geting ready to exspurse my self should I say something so she has time to move...(so she doesnt get covered in my juice) or should I just let her keep going? or should I let her know and then let it shoot all over her face instead of in her mouth... one more thing how long does it usually take for you people to juice when you get you get sucked off? and does your girl ever say that it is really boring?? that is what my girl says and that it takes to long! and I just wanted to say " in the time you just took to tell me that you made it that much longer for your self".....and when she stops to ask how it is then I usually lose my feeling of excitement ( I am still hard) but it seems when she does that it is like starting over!![/i]

[Adore]

How about asking her.

[ness_masta]

Every one is different, some people take a long time to cum and some people can do it in 3 minutes, depends who you are and how much you jack off and how horny you are and how easily you are turned on... lots of things that could affect how long it takes. Depends on the way she is doing it too.

[hunny]

[quote="BANSHEE4785"]
:D When receiving a blowjob, when geting ready to exspurse my self

Ha ha!
Sorry but I am still laughing over the word, 'exspurse.'
Surely you made that up?!
It's funny though and i still get your meaning.
I think it's good bj etiquette to warn the girl. Very polite of you, rather than just 'exspursing' all over her.

[zoe]

It would be nice to let her know. About shooting all over her face, that doesn't seem very pleasing to me, but you never know, so ask her about it.

If she finds it boring, she's obviously doing it wrong :wink:

[BigJim]

wear a flavoured condom. tastes good for her, and no mess.

[BANSHEE4785]

I would do that, but the way it is, it takes me a while to cum anyway and if I wore a flavored condom then It would even take longer...I think I will copensate and just use a flavored liquid, ( sex gel)

:)

[Sydney123456]

Talk to her beforehand. It's nice...and then you know what she wants. :)

And...why don't you tell her when she's almost done, or how close you are too cumming? That is always helpful...becuase if you're one of those guys that takes FOREVER to cum, then she knows when there's light at the end of the tunnel (you know, it's not the most comfortable position to be in most of the time).

[kuju]

just say, hey, do you want me to let you know when i.....

and even if she says she doesn't care, let her know anyways... and have kleenex at hand.

[Deidre]

The stereotypical reply... talk to her. It seems every question you ask, it's really something you should talk to her about... and what her preference is. We can't tell you whether to do it this way or that way. You know your girlfriend best, I suppose.

Why not just ask her if she wants to be told in advance and if she's okay with getting semen in her face etc.

Hmm... I can imagine it now... "ow! ow! it poked me in the eye!" *whine* (that stuff moves FAST you know) :o 8)

[JohnSmith]

I would prob. ask her what she wants you to do when your going to cum. Thats what i did.... :)

[SupernaturalNympho]

Unless you guys have done it a million times over and you know she has no problem swallowing, don't warn her....but more often than not the best thing to do is say "Im ready" or something to let her know. That way she can take you out of her mouth and give you a chance to finish or continue on.

The whole boring thing scares me a bit though. Unfortunately she's not here to have a look at these suggestions, but you can approach her and talk to her about them:

- Don't ONLY give head. Incorporate a handjob and a blowjob.

- Learn different techniques. Not only will this suddenly become "unboring", but maybe it'll help his orgasm situation.

and

-Don't give blowjobs ALL the time. Spice it up with petting, mutual masturbation or toys (to name a few).


The idea is to keep things fresh and exciting and maybe she'll be more enthusiastic and less bored.

talk talk talk to each other :)

[surfy_dude]

Well, first of all ask her if she's okay with you cumming in her mouth, i would suggest. And dont cum all over her face, i reckon thats just rude...
Plus, it would feel heaps better in her mouth anyway. Another thing with blowjobs, and make sure u let ur girlfriend know... is to keep going for a bit after u've cum in her mouth... there's nothing worse than a bf ending as soon as you cum.

[surfy_dude]

Theres nothing worse than a bj ending as soon as you come.
just thought i'd fix that up :D

[hunny]

Yeah its probably safe to assume girls dont like it if you come all over their face. I wouldn't like that. So warn her, I guess.

[JohnSmith]

exacty, the only reason you shouldn't ask is if you just don't like the girl whos giving you head.

[Tootsie Pop]

He taps me on the side of my face when he is about to "exspurse" so that it doesnt all get in my mouth. Hes so sweet to do so. :)

[Madeku]

well, you can always set up some kinda system. like when you're close to cumming you say something. or if you can't form words, you squeeze her shoulder or hand or something.

and like they said, is she cool with swallowing? oh yeah and talk a bit and make sure she knows to keep going a bit after you orgasm.

[Goddess33]

i'm sure if you just ask her she'll be happy to answer you lol...but do not under any circumstances assume she'll swallow,sum chicks hate that

[Pudding]

my bf usually goes 'uh im going to cum soon...' and sometimes we decide how we're gonna dispose of the mess before we even get started.. 'does my baby feel like some extra protein today?' :wink: lol umm or
'how about i let you cum all over my body today babe'
meh, yknow. it can be kind of a turn on if u do it sexily and dirtily enuf and that usually works well for me n my man :lol: