Never ask for "The Last kiss"

[geckosnipp]

:roll: :roll: :roll: <-gather around children

I want to try to help others from having the heart break i had for asking for "the last kiss." I thought that when my GF told me it was over i wanted to end it all. So i asked if she could give me one last kiss for me to remember. She was fine with it...but the exact second our lips touched i lost what ever control i had and cried as hard as i ever had infront of anyone.
So my advice to you if you are having a non-bitter break up and there are no hard feelings do -->NOT<-- get a last kiss to remember. You will only remember the more heart break it gave you.

Its not worth it...trust me on this one.

[MeLiS]

Aww I read your post about your situation - feel better soon! :(

[Sydney123456]

That sounds so heartbreaking...

...but, I would anyway. I would ask for it, and if I cry...then I cry.

Gah- just hearing about it makes me wanna cry. :cry: I'm sorry about your situation...

[Hippie96321]

Yeah I made that same mistake but I actually am not completly against asking...it provided some closure for me that I think I might have needed at the time.

[Roguish Grin]

I must agree with snipper_cr, I mean, when my ex and I split, I asked for a last kiss, and I got slapped...right across the face, in the middle of the restaurant..... :oops: not a good plan

And good luck, snipper_cr... :(

[Skankstar]

just thinking about breaking up brings tears to my eyes...

i rekon if its sum1 u ABSOLUTELY love and are in love with they should see your reaction to the breakup

just so they know how much they meant to you

[sweet-one]

With my boyfriend, he asked for a last kiss before we had to leave each other and go back to our sides of the country...it was really sad. :(

[geckosnipp]

:roll: :roll: :roll: <---awww

You guys are all wounderful...

I hope she saw what i meant to her...i mean it was natural the way i was feeling, i wasnt acting the way i did just to make her feel bad.

The more i think about it, at the time that kiss was terriable but i am woundering if in the long run it may of been a good thing. Right now it still kills me just thinking about it.

[Jebus]

I never asked for a last kiss...

...I was kind of pissed that we broke up.

[sweet-one]

I never asked for a last kiss...

...I was kind of pissed that we broke up.


That's the way i think it is most of the time. Atleast, it's been that way with everyone i know. :(

[super_chevy2000]

I asked for one last kiss when my boyfriend broke up with me and I stayed strong until I got out of his sight. When he couldn't see me anymore I cried so hard and even though I tried to stop, I could not make myself stop crying. It hurt so bad but I was thankful for that last kiss from him.

[chiukit]

i think i'd ask for that one last kiss anyways...


but its not like i've been in such a situation where i didnt want the grrl to leave me.
mostly the other way around... and since im such an oral person... hey i dont mind
giving them that one last thing they want from me...

[HeaVeN-ly]

I've been in that position and it's not a pleasant one....

[Cherisse]

The only time I've asked for a last kiss was when I broke up with the most recent ex-boyfirend. Almost a year ago, to the day. While he was in Europe, he had sex with another girl, because I wouldn't put out. The day after he got back, he bought me things that he'd always hated buying for me, and some stuff for my roommate.
In the car, I told him my middle name, which he'd always wanted to know, and then I kissed him goodbye. I felt really good about it. If he cried, he deserved it.

[zoe]

I wouldn't cry, but it wouldn't help my disposition much - not dumb enough to ask for a goodbye kiss.

[wowzers]

before i left for thailand last summer, this guy (long ass story), wanted to give me a goodbye kiss (which would have been our first together) ... and we had liked each other for some time... but just before he kissed me, i stepped back and told him that if we did it would just make me miss him more. so it didnt happen, and he started crying because i brought up me leaving... and it was not happy.

[1Diamond Tiara]

aww this is one gloomy topic :*(

[Wrightman84]

i would have asked for one but we broke up over the phone :cry:

[CletusDelroy]

Dude, get a hold of yourself. No girl wants a guy who cries (even though she had just broken up with you). I don't care what they say about wanting a "sensitive man" none of them want one who will cry over anything except a death or other major catastrophe.

Shit happens, hearts get broken, but don't dwell on the past and move on. You'll find others.

[HeaVeN-ly]

This isn't the right time. I've just encountered a break up with the guy I mentioned, and again, he asked for a "last kiss".

My eyes are still swollen right now.

[geckosnipp]

:roll: :roll: :roll: <--- grr to CletusDelroy

Well excuse me for being sensitive. After you have loved someone for over 3 years and to have it so unexpecdidly you are very shocked and i dont care who you are, would be effected by it. She was also the first person i ever loved and the first break up i went through. nuff said.

[chiukit]

heh. cletusdelroy sounds like rising sun.
harsh, very harsh, but he gets to the point and gets the message across.
and i DO agree with what he sayd. there's a world out there. dont dwell on one
person, even if shes been by your side as ur lover for three years. i mean, how
old are you? i read somewhere u're 15... c'mon. u still got time.


there's these lyrics in a chinese song that i like:
you see the world is out there
waiting for me
thats why i wanna be
as free as can be
i know that u been good
and u been sweet
so dont put up a fight
just let it be
well i hope one day while im missin u
and so will u be thinkin of me
and we can b together to laugh about the past
but the love is still there for u and me


eh, i dunno y i put up those lyrics. but it seems to fit, no?

[Danae]

I've never been in this situation but in one of the Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul books, there is a story like yours. It is sad and this thread is sad. It's hella hard to go through what you're feeling. I do agree with cletus and chiu tho, about there being a life for you, after all this. It'll take time tho to find it, to even want to find it. *big hugs*

[CletusDelroy]

My intent wasn't to be a dick, just to clarify that. :wink: :D

[wowzers]

i guess my situation (described already) was different... because we werent even together... but when he started crying because i was going to move, it was one of the most touching things ever.

and i think that even if i had just broken up with someone (unless it was a screaming fighting breakup) it would still be very touching and id probly feel horrible.... ok maybe i wouldnt appreciate it. i dunno. nevermind

[chiukit]

My intent wasn't to be a dick, just to clarify that. :wink: :D


dont worry. i jus respect the way u give ur advice.
hmm.. do me a favour. if i ever ask for advice on this forum..
be harsh on me too. lol, cose knowin these boards.. the advice i get will
prolly.. 'its okay' 'things will get better' blah blah.

[geckosnipp]

:roll: :roll: :roll: <---hey no board bashing

Hey, dont bash the bords! Just because the advice...oh wait...oh? I see...yes...okay....yes :roll: points your a mod and has >1000 posts
So ima shut up about that :-) :-)

Anyways, yes i am 15...16 in less than a month...damn that sounds weird.
Yes i am slowly starting to get over it. It was still very hard as she was the first person i ever dated, non the less love. I still have gone from wanting to be with her still to wanting to "Bitch slap the 5 foot norwegian back to her own country"
Major mood swings but nowi am leveling out and realizing it may be better.

[chiukit]

heh. just because im a mod doesnt make me above everyone else. just because
i haf 1000 posts dont mean im any better than you. im sayin what i sayd thro my
experience as a member of this forum for over two years. when i ask for advice,
rarely will someone be harsh and straight to the point - most just dance around it