is there more chance with some1 who used to like you?

[Raptor]

Well this is a different girl [gasp] b4 u all go [sigh]!

Well back last April, i used to like this girl, and i think coz of the signals she put out, she may have liked me for a short while as well. Well back then i was a bit of a, i dunno 'square' although thats obviously not the impression she got. Well ne way i was shy and nervous. So nervous around her infact that i was barely able to utter two words, as this is wot let me down.

Anyway, i like her again now, and she is really hot! Well that not important, i just wanted to say it! Well i like her again, but we've been friends for the whole of the time since back then. Not close friends, but we talk occasionally, and say hi to each other. She's been out with a numberof guys since, all of whom have treated her badly. She put up with a lot of shit from them.

Well i dont think she feels the same way (atm) but i figured that if i talk to her more and show how funny and nice i am lol that she may start to like me (again).

I'm just wondering if since she liked me once theres a chance she will again, coz i wud hate to think that i've screwed up my only oppertunity to be with her.

Cheers ppl!

[wowzers]

i dont think it makes much of a difference how many times shes liked you before... youre both different people now [well at least slightly] so jus start over from scratch, id say...

i guess some people that i used to like i actually didnt even want to be friends w afterwards. others ive liked again... i dunno. it depends on the girl [and the guy that is liked :) ]

[acid rain]

I think that there could be a chance. If you liked her once before, and missed your chance, then there's no rule saying you can never ever go out with her. Talk to her more, give her the impression that your interested. Good luck dude.

[Raptor]

Cheers.

Well what i was thinking was that there must have been somehting that made her like me in the first place, so either one of two things happened:

1) she just decided that since i didn't do anything i wasn't interested and decided the best hting to do was to get over me in which case i might be able to spark an old interest
or
2) i'm sure there was a second god damn it i just thought of it!

shit!
damn my minds suddnely gone blank! help some1!

[skittleknows]

well, it depends, i mean there are some crushes that never go awauy, they just get swept back b/c of other stuff, and tehn there are crushes you get over... you just gotta see her signals now

[moonangel]

I hate this answer, but it really depends. Usually I would say yes, she has liked you once, so it is very likely she could like you again. However, my ex-boyfriend, I used to really really like him. Then we broke up, kinda unexpectedly, and I was sad for about a week and then I got over it. So now it's been something like 4-5 weeks since we broke up and I don't think I will ever feel the same for him again. So many things have happened, and my feelings have changed - and now it's a "been there done that" feeling ... I'm just over it. I thought I would've liked him forever. he was great.
However you and this girl haven't got together at all ... so maybe there still are unresolved feelings she has for you, still there, somewhere. But I'm sure with the powers of your personality you can "rekindle her desire" for you. She may have just accepted that you're a friend, and that's it. Or she might still regard you as a possibility. Anyway keep working at it, you probably still have quite a chance.

[Vypearl]

I think the best thing to do now is to stay friends, and get to know her better. Once you've done that only should you consider your chances, whether ther is even one or not. IMHO you shou;dn't have too high expectations, simply to protext your own feelings should things do not work out.

Anyway, All the best

[AlfredB18]

You're young...get to know more ladies before you start recycling, okay?

[waiting_on_an_angel]

Most definitely get to know her better....but don't wait for her. Get to know other girls too!!! :)

[wowzers]

You're young...get to know more ladies before you start recycling, okay?


woah dude, stop talking about females like they are articles of clothing or something.... how the hell can he help it if hes starting to like her again. sorry im still a little emotional about the LJBF thing... dont take it personally, alfred.

[Vypearl]

You're young...get to know more ladies before you start recycling, okay?
I can't help but laught at that phrase...sorry