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charlie
September 4th, 2008, 11:06 PM
There's this one girl I met online (actually she was on my friend's myspace.) We've been talking for a while, and we're friends. She knows my friend Marty (the friend whose myspace I found her on) and his girlfriend. I'm really good friends with both Marty and his girlfriend.

I keep on asking her if she wants to hang out, but she's either busy, or something comes up. Now, I don't drive, but she does, so it's really up to her. It bothers me, because I'm free to hang out a lot. But I'm pretty sure if I had a car and knew how to drive this wouldn't be a problem... I want to keep asking her when we can hang out, but I feel like I am being a bother.

so, does anyone have any ideas as to what I should do?

Bath of Glitter
September 4th, 2008, 11:34 PM
Tell her that you're open to hanging out, and tell her to let you know whenever she's free. Leave it at that and don't bring it up again.

Pepsiholic
September 4th, 2008, 11:41 PM
Once you feel as though you've done what you can to get this girl's attention, there's not much more you can do unless she's the "play hard to get type". Personally, I hate that type but that's just me. Let her know that you want to spend time together and let her decide from there. I personally wouldn't hang around waiting.

Benny15
September 5th, 2008, 02:57 AM
Why do you think that if you had a car or could drive things would be different? If she doesn't have time then A. she doesn't, or B. she is trying to let you down nicely.

Like other's have said just let her know your up for anything whenever and leave the ball in her court.