Tell her im a virgin?

[Guardian4981]

Well I have another thread on here I think on page 2 but basically I have been seeing a woman who is 42 and Im only 22. She has pretty much let me know that she would love to take things to the next level. Im however still a virgin and Im very uneasy as to whether I should tell her or not.

[kuju]

tell her. that way she won't have overinflated expectations of your sexual prowess. And tell her that you're willing to learn, and always up for more. The good thing about young men is that they're at their sexual peak. At least you've got plenty of energy and a willingness to learn, if not the expertise at the moment!

[socialsue]

She'll love a virgin.
And by telling her in advance, you do not have to create embarrassing
situations later on.

[Guardian4981]

Im just afraid that part of the reason she may be attracted to me is she may think im this hot young flamboyant guy who has alot of variety and experience and could give her a good time/help her feel young again. I afraid if she knows Im a V then she may be turned off :(

[Praetorian]

I'm almost 40. At this age I highly doubt she's looking at 22 year old as being 'experienced' with a lot of variety. She more than likely knows what she's getting into.

Even when you have sex with someone experienced, there's still a bit of a breaking period where you get to know what they like and don't like. Their erogenous zone, what turns them on, etc...

Just tell her you're a virgin. I know plenty of girls that would be turned on by that.

[automorphism]

Im just afraid that part of the reason she may be attracted to me is she may think im this hot young flamboyant guy who has alot of variety and experience and could give her a good time/help her feel young again. I afraid if she knows Im a V then she may be turned off :(

When something is as enjoyable as sex it's really easy to learn. One of the best things about sex is learning about your partner and what they like, and that's something even the more experienced have to learn about someone new.

[Guardian4981]

So you guys think shell actually like it?

[Praetorian]

So you guys think shell actually like it?

Maybe the GIRLS should answer that question...

[Ms. Islip]

Older chicks expect to be the more knowledgeable ones in the relationship. I wouldn't sweat it. Just tell her that you are eager to learn. In the meantime, get a good sex book and check out what you may be able to do. Don't be embarrassed if you don't get it right the first time. All the women after her will be very pleased with you, I'm sure, after she gets done teaching you.

[DevilDog]

You'd better tell her you are a virgin as it will affect her expectations in the bedroom. If she knows you don't know squat, she'll teach you. Otherwise she'll want to find out what you can do first and you'll let her down.

[ricky776]

Well I have another thread on here I think on page 2 but basically I have been seeing a woman who is 42 and Im only 22. She has pretty much let me know that she would love to take things to the next level. Im however still a virgin and Im very uneasy as to whether I should tell her or not.

Don’t worry about telling her remember she was a virgin once open a time and maybe she will find it a little turn on having a young man who’s eager to please and learn new things just the way she likes it
Just tell her what you have got to lose
Take care rick

[Guardian4981]

Thanks for the help I think im gonna try to tell her tonight.

[Lokie]

Since you said she wanted to take it to the next level, that must mean that she is emotionally invested in this relationship already. Don't worry too much about it because she is already into you. I'm sure she cares enough to understand...and POP YOUR CHERRY!! =]