Out of the friend zone

[bigbadandawesome]

So, my girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for a month now, and we have not really done much physically. I really care about her, and we have been getting to be really good friends. Recently, however, she seems to have been talking to me less.

I feel that one reason for this might be that she only sees me as a friend because I have not given her reason to see me as otherwise, despite being "boyfriend and girlfriend". I know that she is attracted to me physically, and I also know that we get along really well. If she once felt feelings for me as more than a friend, is it possible to rekindle them? If this is the case, then how can I go about doing that?

[automorphism]

What...have you been taking her out to places? Kissing? Touching? These are typical bf-gf type actions.

And what do you mean by talking to her less?

less = fewer text messages + less facebooking -> ok
...everything in between...
less = disinterested tone + avoiding phone calls + nothing to say -> bad

[DevilDog]

I'm with Automorphism. We need a bit more information.

[bigbadandawesome]

we touch, but no kissing yet. and there has been less of all contact. she recently had a family death though, so im not sure. she seems to be talking to others but not me...

[Kuky]

You're going to have to be the one to initiate these things. Unless you're making allowances for the fact that she has a trust issue due to her past or something, a month without kissing has "friends only" written all over it. It might be that she's been waiting and nothing's come from it (from you) yet. She won't tell you to kiss her. You'll just have to pick the good moment and move in slowly enough for her to stop you if she isn't up for it. And then just go for it.

[DevilDog]

Come on guy. You've got to kiss her. I mean - she's going to want SOME kind of romance!!