attract woman with your personality...

[percules]

the title of the thread pretty much is self-explanatory...and has close relation with my other thread, but i decided to start a new thread instead.

What are the personality traits that attract woman like a MAGNET?

[DevilDog]

Well - I'm not a woman, but my experience as a man is that conflicting traits are what attract women, and particularly traits that create a conflicting 'bad boy / nice guy' image. They want you to be a little of both, IMHO.

[MrLee]

I would say Wit is a common one. As well as confidence. Having both is huge plus.

There really is no one fits all personality trait though. It takes a whole package to really fit the bill. And every woman is different.

[moonangel]

Confidence, sense of humour, intelligence, wit, honesty, sincerity ... in that order, basically

[kuju]

yeah, I'm with moonangel. when it comes to first impressions, confidence is KEY. but then you actually have to have something to say once you've got her attention, so sense of humour/intelligence/wit are important. Of course, if you want things to go further than simple flirting at a bar, honestly and sincerity are a must.

[VincentBayle]

Confidence, humor, aspirations - in that order

[PhoenixDown]

Passion and vulnerability.

Confidence = in most cases, guys take this as false bravado and women see it for what it really is; nothing. Being sure of yourself is a good thing, but if your just a little nervous walking up and starting a conversation with a girl she'll most likely think its cute.

[Doodles-scrooge]

confidence and humor are money.

You wouldnt believe what that combination will bring you.

[Ms. Islip]

Robin Williams has always been my dream man. I'd never be bore because he's hilarious and I'd never be cold because he is so damn hairy. haha. The real love of my life actually fits that. He's funny as hell and just overall manly. I'd say thats what really does it for me. He's just the essence of man. He doesn't have to try to be the center of attention. It just occurs naturally because of his wit and good nature. The conflicting traits thing is true because it adds mystery. Think about this, if a guy is mr. popular, but doesn't treat anyone special, he's witty and makes fun of people and has that manly arrogance about him, but he holds your hand when you're just walking off the edge of the sidewalk. He never makes fun of you like he does others and he goes to get your drink or makes sure that the waiter's got your shit right and if it's not he uses his wit and charm on the manager to make things right. Wouldn't that make you feel more special than hanging out with some guy who kisses everybody's ass? You want a nice guy that will help his friends out and is loyal to them, but not a guy who gets walked on.

I'd say my number one trait that trumps everything is STRENGTH. I want a strong man that will protect me if need be or be able to help me accomplish something. I don't want a wuss. I don't want to be able to boss him around without having to use my feminine wiles. Strength of character is key.

[percules]

what does that "manly arrogant" mean?

I only knew the feminine one---you know that thing playing hard to get
(im a beatiful woman and you have to fight for me blah blah blah).

I didn't know the existence of masculine arrogancy!!! (except from the one that ignores the woman at all, trying to cover his weakness actually, but obviously it's not the one you were reffering to).