Kissing on the body?

[Spider]

Was wondering what the best way of kissing a girl's body is?
Soft, brief touches? Strong sucking? Gentle use of tongue?

When I am kissing my gf on the lips, her breathing gets very deep and heavy and she does the whole thrusting thing, etc, but then if I stray to her neck or chest (tshirts off, bra on) she stops with the breathing and the like and seems to gently easy me back up to her lips, which suggests I'm not doing as good a job as I might!

[IGemini]

Maybe she just doesn't want to be kissed elsewhere from the lips. How long have you two been going?

[chiukit]

it depends on the mood and the atmosphere


usually when startin off a session.. u go slow n hold things back


and finally when thingz seem hot n heavy u go all-out madd... u'know?


if she doeznt like those soft-touch kisses... mayb go fast n heavy...
mayb shed like that. u kno? try things out... thats the onli way ta find out her likes n dislikes

[sunfrost]

If she's not in to it, just back of... simple as that... respect eachother.

[Spider]

If she's not in to it, just back of... simple as that... respect eachother.

Um, yes, that is just perhaps a little obvious ... :roll:
Have taken into account that she might not be into it at the moment, otherwise I wouldn't be posting - was wondering what you thought as regards the actual question, assuming that at some point in time she will be into it.

[sunfrost]

Be creative, ask her what she likes. mmm to tired to write al my thought down...

[Clive Sparrow]

heh, sorry, but I don't think that means you are doing it wrong, I think it means just don't do that! hehe, I think from what you said she just doesn't sound comfortable with it at this point, so, stick with the lips for now, and if you really feel a strong need to go elsewhere later on, talk to her about it and see what she thinks, because you really can't go wrong being honest about it.

[Sydney123456]

Speaking for myself...a chick...I like the soft, gentle kisses with playful tongue. I'm not really into HARDCORE SUCKING, but then again some girls are. I suppose you can either ask her, or you can experiment. Trying soft things, then get into more heavy things. See how she reacts...you know. :)

[zoe]

To sum it up, just ask her! We're not her, we don't know what she's thinking :cool3:

[Minimus]

yea, she probably just really likes kissing ya lips! maybe not too into the whole body kissing and neck stuff..

go with Zoe and the others,and just ask her bout it, be sly though, maybe turn it into a whole kissing game or somthing...i dunno.....thats what i would do...ya...

[Spider]

Cool, thanks, will do ... exams for her at the moment, but once she's out of those, am looking forward to some proper time spent together ... ;)

[Boombuster]

Yea, maybe she likes kissing you on the lips better. For my girl, we kiss for a while, and then I move to the neck. That's when she really starts breathing heavy, but I switch between her neck and her lips.

And then I think it depends on how you're kissing her neck. Try breathing on her neck, slowly and seductively. Every breath going out will be warmed by your body and will excite her even more depending on how hot the weather is. After that, you have to read whether her temperment requires slow sensual kisses or faster more spread out pecks. I find there's something about the side of her neck, a bit below and behind her ear. Really sensitive because no one really touches there.

Anyway, just experiment, and don't be afraid to communicate. I don't know anything really either, but I read her body and go from there.

[super_chevy2000]

I personally like soft, gentle kisses. You girl just may not feel comfortable with that just yet so you could ask her and find out how she feels about it and what she likes.

[mearimydra]

I love gentle kisses, especially on my neck and stomach..mmm....

[MeLiS]

Me too mearimydra!

Arghhh, I wish my boy wasn't soo far away right now ... :cry:

[Wolf]

You could try kissing her passionately on the lips, but slide the tips of your fingers very lightly on the skin of her back + sides...