okok HOW do I french kiss??

[HipoooHoppooo]

My guy and I have only kissed normally so far. I think he'll slip me the tounge soon lol but what do I do after that? Serious, I need some step-by step direct-shuns b/c I have NO CLUE!!! Whatsoever!!!

Thanx!
-Hallie <3

[BabyDiva]

When you're kissing, your mouths open a little bit and since he'll probably be the one to initiate, he'll just sort of slip his tongue in your mouth. You can use yours to touch his or whatever.

I guess I'm really poor at giving directions, maybe someone can go more in depth. Things are so natural with my boyfriend it just sort of happens without too much thought.

Oh yeah, make sure you don't have a mouthful of spit, slobbery kisses aren't exactly romantic (to most people anyway).

[Raskal]

^^^^^^ Thats pretty much it....dont make a big deal out of it or then it wont be as good as it can be...just dont think and dont use a lotta force with your tounge...that can get unfun. Well enjoy!! :)

[goofball]

you just sort ofmove your tongue around, massaging his when it's in your mouth, mvoing it aorund his mouth.

this is one of the few things that is kinda difficult to describe without actually doing it.
but not to fear, i know you're kinda scared and do't know what to do and ar eafread you'll fuck things up, but you just won't. that's just the bottom line

[MeLiS]

I agree with what everyone else said! Don't worry - it will become like 2nd nature once you guys get used to it! I was nervous my first time but now it's like nothing! :lol:

[geckosnipp]

:roll: :roll: :roll: <-- never gets here on time

Yeah the way i do it is after a while of kissing you start to get kinda more into. once your lips get more moist (its VERY hard to french with dry lips, trust me). Then a kinda cool way if you want to start it, trace his lips with your tounge. Then slowly put your tounge and keep it going. It feels REALLY good if both the tops of your tounges touch but thats hard. there are many nerves on TOP of the tounge, but next to none onthe bottem. So like maybe that could help. Also you know how its very tickalish on top of your mouth? Will be on him, and well, you know what to do :P And just keep your mouth moving. Spelling names is fun. Dont over stay your welcome, like keep at it but change positions a bit. And coordination is kidna problematic. You need to coordinate your hands, your lips, your head and your tounge while still enjoying. If you have problems, stop moving your hands (likeon their back) or even stop moving your lips. Enjoy it, it is VERY sensational. For the 102 class, try sucking gentally on their tounge, it feels good. My gf does it and really is a nice feeling. Have fun and enjoy it! you'll wish you did it sooner,
Snipper

[BabyDiva]

Funny you should mention the tops of tongues touching. My sweetie - dang he's talented - can flip his tongue over. It was definitely an interesting sensation!

[super_chevy2000]

Slide your tongue in his mouth and tease his tongue with yours.
When he puts his tongue in your mouth, massage it with yours.
That's about all I can say!

[Clive Sparrow]

signing your name Hallie made me laugh a bit, cause I knew this girl named Hallie and she was like, a turbo slut, and I laughed at the thought of her not knowing what frenching was, hehe...


really, all you should do is go with it. I mean, don't make a huge thing of it, just slip your tongue in his mouth, massage his tongue with yours (massage is just my fun word for rub) and above all else, just have fun, because you're supposed to love stuff like this, heh

[sweet ideas]

i know you're kinda scared and do't know what to do and ar eafread you'll fuck things up, but you just won't. that's just the bottom line
<span style='color:red'>exactly correct. everyone's afraid, thinking"oh, am i a good kisser! I dont want to ruin it! i've never done it before! how!?", their first time. if you dont think, and you dont PLAN it, things will most likely turn out great.... just dont bite his tongue or lip or hock a loogie (eww! :oops: ) THAT would be probably the only way you could screw things up.. (Not like I'm some all-mighty kiss master or anything, if it came off that way.)</span>

[mrh]

I was so nervous about frenching. But it's really not so hard at all. Just sort of play with his tongue. Do circles, lick all over it... But just don't really think about it. Do whatever feels right in the moment. That's my best advice.

[mearimydra]

Don't try and reach the back of his mouth with your tongue...eugh. Just do it really gently. It's most likely he'll take it slow too if it's the first time you've frenched. I had absolutely no clue what to do the first time my boyfriend kissed me, but it was still really nice. And hey, get him to give you kissing lessons! :D A great way to get better AND get loads of snogging sessions! :D

Meari

[eatshit]

I guess this is one of those things heaps of people are worried about, but it comes really naturally to everyone. So just relax, and things will take their course! :)

Hmm, i've never tried spelling out letters before!? ;) heehehe