foosballboy
July 23rd, 2007, 10:36 AM
Hello, I thought I would come here seek some advice, hopefully somone has some suggestions for me.
So all this summer I have been hanging out a lot with this girl, I am 22 and she is 20. We hang out all the time, she sleeps over a lot too(we have never kissed or anything). I have a hard time trying to see if she likes me or not. My dilema is this, We have been friends since she was a freshman in highschool(i was a sophomore) she dated one of my friends durring highschool and they broke up when they went to college, it has now been three years since they dated. I am not sure if she is just wanting to continue our friendship that we have, or what. I do know that over the past month in a half something happend inside where I started to develop more than just feelings of frienship towards her.
Now everyone of my friends that observes us tells me that we act just like a couple and everyone thinks we are dating. We go out to dinner a lot, we go to the movies, she invites me to dinner over at her parents house. All of that fun stuff that couples our age would do, but no relationship title or being involved with each other.
She is going to be staying over on Tuesday(tomorrow) because she doesnt like to be the alone in her house(all other family members will be out of town). I already suggested that we get dinner as well, should I tell her my feelings? Or should I not risk the friendship that we have? I desperatly want to have a relationship with this girl, but I also dont want her to become scared of what I say and thus giving us a distant friendship.
Please help, any advice would be greatly welcomed.
So all this summer I have been hanging out a lot with this girl, I am 22 and she is 20. We hang out all the time, she sleeps over a lot too(we have never kissed or anything). I have a hard time trying to see if she likes me or not. My dilema is this, We have been friends since she was a freshman in highschool(i was a sophomore) she dated one of my friends durring highschool and they broke up when they went to college, it has now been three years since they dated. I am not sure if she is just wanting to continue our friendship that we have, or what. I do know that over the past month in a half something happend inside where I started to develop more than just feelings of frienship towards her.
Now everyone of my friends that observes us tells me that we act just like a couple and everyone thinks we are dating. We go out to dinner a lot, we go to the movies, she invites me to dinner over at her parents house. All of that fun stuff that couples our age would do, but no relationship title or being involved with each other.
She is going to be staying over on Tuesday(tomorrow) because she doesnt like to be the alone in her house(all other family members will be out of town). I already suggested that we get dinner as well, should I tell her my feelings? Or should I not risk the friendship that we have? I desperatly want to have a relationship with this girl, but I also dont want her to become scared of what I say and thus giving us a distant friendship.
Please help, any advice would be greatly welcomed.