Over Before It Started?

[Goalie34]

Hi y'all. I started an online relationship with a girl. We've spoken over the phone and even talked about her flying down here so we could meet and have a fun, long weekend and have really been hitting it off. I've been talking with her about once a week, but now, I am having trouble getting a hold of her. It's now been almost a week and a half and am starting to worry. I called her twice and texted her once but so far nothing. Perhaps I'm worrying over nothing, but nevertheless, I am concerned. How long again before I should try and call again (last call was yesterday)? Do I try and forget about it for a few days and see if she calls me? Help! Thanks.

[PhoenixDown]

Dont invest so much energy into someone you have not yet met in person.

[justinbucherj]

Dont mean to shit on your parade, but she met another guy or just lost interest. Cut your losses and walk away.

[Goalie34]

I'm going to give it another try or two before I'm ready to throw in the towel. I'm not so sure you guys would be saying this stuff if you really heard our conversations. For example, the last time we spoke she said she was seriously looking into flight information to come out here to visit. Today's Monday, if I don't hear from her today, I'm going to try and call again tomorrow.

[chiukit]

a few years ago, i was seriously looking into flight information to go to vancouver to visit someone i met online.

not as many years ago, i was seriously looking into flight information to go to los angeles to visit someone i met online, a different person.

you could be seriously looking into something one day, and realize it was stupid the next and move on.