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Tortuga
May 22nd, 2002, 09:28 PM
Hey guys,
I read a comment by kuju under another handjob question and it got me wondering. The other question's about whether the girl should pull off the boxers all the way when giving a handjob, and kuju said something to the effect of, Pull them off because if you don't, the only thing you can do it plain ol' up-and-down. Now, my question is, what else can you do? I've always only done the plain ol' up-and-down, cuz I have no clue what else I could do! Could someone fill me in?
Thanks,
Tortuga
BigJim
May 22nd, 2002, 09:39 PM
hey, try this archive as a start...
http://rf.thedesigneng.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=190
Tortuga
May 22nd, 2002, 10:20 PM
Thanks, BigJim, but it wasn't quite what I was looking for. I guess when kuju said that, I was thinking that there were a variety of...I dunno...ways to move my hand? Or something? I mean, what came to my mind first was that a person could try, like, a twisting motion instead of just up-and-down. But I don't really want to just go try that on my guy, because what if that's actually really painful?
Get my drift?
Thanks again,
Tortuga
kewlgal99
May 22nd, 2002, 10:41 PM
try jackinworld.com, its a masterbation site for guys but alot of the techniques you can use on him too
just_call_me_guy
May 23rd, 2002, 12:55 AM
I know about 10 I can do by myself... and uhhh 10 with someone else hehehe.
mollyelaine
May 23rd, 2002, 01:00 AM
okay, but which one do you like the best?
kuju
May 23rd, 2002, 01:16 AM
dammit nate... why did I GIVE you those articles if no one will ever SEE them?
The trick to a great handjob (assuming you're not ready to give oral) is to VARY it. He can jerk himself off quite well, trust me. What YOU can do that's different is add some variety.
here's a few techniques to try... and if you're going to do them all in one go, here's the order too... start out light, work your way to heavy. And don't forget to take *short* breaks for him to calm down (just a little) and you can kiss him. Make him beg for it a little... "Do you want some more" is a very teasing voice is always sexy. If he's REALLY going, he might even welcome the short break... if only for the sole purpose of grabbing you and kissing you... HARD.
-play his penis like a piano. or a keyboard. slightly pressure fingertaps stimuate his penis in many differnet places at once, and give a different sensation that his usual jerking off.
-don't jerk him... MASSAGE him. using your index, middle and ring fingers, flaten them out and use that part of your hand to gently, but firmly massage his penis. Cup the shaft in your other hand to keep it from moving, and start at the base, working your way up.
-a sensitive part of the penis, other than the head of course, is a tiny knob-like thing just under the mushroom of his penis head. Rubbing that with your thumb is good.
-Even if you won't put it in your mouth, guys like wetness. Use a lubricant, or, at the least, lick your fingertips and use that to massage the head of his penis... lightly.
-Guys like to have their balls fondled. generally, don't be too rough, but cupping them in your palm and gently rubbing them can be very stimulating. Also, VERY gently tug on the hairs on his balls. I said VERY gently. and it's not just the parts of his balls that you see... if you cup the ball in your hand, let your fingers wrap around it and gently massage the skin that connects his balls to the rest of him.
-The up and down motion is like in and out for a guy. There's a technique commonly called the "everlasting vagina" that can ONLY be done by the hands. if the guy is uncircumsized then it may be possible without lube (or lots of saliva) but if he's circumsized, go for the lube. Your hands need to glide a LOT here. you start with one hand in a loose fist placed at the tip of his penis. Moving your hand down, you allow the penis to "penetrate" your hand, but let a little resistance go, just as if he were entering a vagina. Once your hand has slip partway down his shaft, use the other hand in the same way back at the top. continuing this motion, if feel to the guy like he's plunging down an everlasting vagina.
-the everlasting pull-out works too... although it's not as good as the everlasting vagina. same thing, except you start with one hand already gripping the penis, and move upwards, then using the other hand, and continuing with that. Try and keep both hands on the penis for as long as possible.
-and the traditional up and down. The other techniques here are for the BUILD UP. The fun. the variety. In general, it's the traditional pumping that's going to get him off, but his orgasm will be THAT much better if it's drawn out.
Goddess33
May 23rd, 2002, 06:04 PM
yay! lets hear it for kuju!...that was honestly more than i ever needed to know about a handjob.. and then some... :P
-Tokyo-
May 23rd, 2002, 08:52 PM
That site made me feel all....hot and bothered...! :P
Fairy Princess
May 23rd, 2002, 11:59 PM
Kuju, that was awsome! Im all excited to go & try all that on my Bf, but with my luck & bad memory, I'll forget most of it.... :oops: :P
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