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lavalamp69
May 12th, 2002, 04:55 AM
There's been plenty of weight threads, but none on height.. I'm just wondering.. does height matter to you?
For me, I'm short, so you bet your ass it matters.. and really eliminates a lot of tall chicks from my selection (not that I care).
FireFly
May 12th, 2002, 05:22 AM
yeh i'd never date a girl whos taller than me... she has to be shorter, dunno why I'd just feel way too weird dating a taller girl
Deidre
May 12th, 2002, 06:36 AM
Height is nothing... I wouldn't mind dating a guy shorter than me (although I might tease him about it). My boyfriend is a few mere inches taller than me... my ex is a head and a half taller than me. As I said, it doesn't really matter.
IGemini
May 12th, 2002, 11:15 AM
My preference falls to anywhere between 5' up to my height. I am 5'11". My current gf is 5'6 1/2".
Jebus
May 12th, 2002, 12:02 PM
I prefer someone who is shorter then me, and I don't think I would date someone extremely taller then me. If she was around an inch or two that would be fine. My last girlfriend was shorter then me by about three inches, but when she had those big shoes "you girls always wear" on she was my height, freaked me out :D !
__United__
May 12th, 2002, 12:53 PM
Though I would not like someone simply because of their height, I would prefer they be shorter than I am. I don't know, it just seems right that way. ;)
BurningMonkey
May 12th, 2002, 12:58 PM
I'm 6'3" and it sucks. =/
ckgirl
May 12th, 2002, 01:02 PM
Just like everyone else has said, I like a guy to be the same height or taller than me by a few inches. (I'm 5'5). I would feel wierd dating a guy that was shorter than me because I could never wear high heels and I like wearing my heels!!
I think it's cute when a guy is the same height as me, but it's even better when he's taller because when we hug, it makes me feel like I'm bieng "protected" and I love feeling like that! :mrgreen: :D :D :wink: :o
FireFly
May 12th, 2002, 01:18 PM
I'd just like to say tall girls arent as ugly as fat girls.
And small guys arent as disturbing as fat guys.
That'd be why more conversations have been about weight than height.
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ckgirl
May 12th, 2002, 01:22 PM
I'd just like to say tall girls arent as ugly as fat girls.
And small guys arent as disturbing as fat guys.
That'd be why more conversations have been about weight than height.
:o That's a nice way to put it.....
FireFly
May 12th, 2002, 01:33 PM
heheh
one4
May 12th, 2002, 02:50 PM
being talls awsome.... im 6'2"
and it gives a commanding presence around evryone else... unless u play ball like me, with guys that are 6'4" and 6'5".
sweet-one
May 12th, 2002, 03:24 PM
Nice to know that Firefly has nothing against fat people. :roll: Height means nothing to me personally. I'm 5'9/5'10 and i'm not worried about dating someone shorter than I am.
one4
May 12th, 2002, 03:50 PM
Nice to know that Firefly has nothing against fat people. :roll: Height means nothing to me personally. I'm 5'9/5'10 and i'm not worried about dating someone shorter than I am.
yea but, dating someone thats taller then me... well that would be freaky... lol
Crash Override
May 12th, 2002, 03:57 PM
I'm 5'9", and my current gf is almost my height (she's half an inch shorter than me).
Personally, I don't really like short girls. I have this major fetish for tall girls (girls my height or taller).
In the past, I've had a girlfriend who was 5'11", and one who was an even 6 feet tall. When she wore heels, she was 6'4"! :lol:
Ah, I remember that semi-formal well... :wink:
flirtandahalf
May 12th, 2002, 04:23 PM
I'm only 5'3" so height has never really been a big issue, but I'm definitely a fan of guys who are taller than me.
Raptor
May 12th, 2002, 04:41 PM
well as the generall concensus is, girls like taller guys, and guys like shorter girls. I'm the same. I'm 6foot when i stand up properly, and to be honest with u i'd like to be 6'2'', but i'm really glad i'm not small. I like being taller than the ppl around me, like some said, it makes u feel commanding. Well i'm 17, and ive grown 2 inches in the last 5 months since i started eating more, so i'm hopeful that i'll grow that little bit more! wish me luck!
dulcinea
May 12th, 2002, 05:40 PM
I'm 4'11". Whoo hoo. Means I'd be hard-pressed to find a guy that's shorter than me. :o
I like short guys, but I've never actually dated one. The few boyfriends, per se, that I have had have been 6', 5'11", and 6'3" or 4" (I forget which). Somehow I always end up with tall guys, even though I prefer short ones. *shrugs* There's just something about being able to hug or kiss a guy WITHOUT having to have him stoop and me stand on my tiptoes that I like :P.
Kuky
May 12th, 2002, 06:21 PM
Hehe I'm 6'4... Actually, I think I am bordering on 6'5 now...
dulcinea
May 12th, 2002, 06:26 PM
*stands on a chair and pats Kuky on the head*
There, there, boy. :o
*grumbles about tall people*
lavalamp69
May 12th, 2002, 06:33 PM
I'm 4'11". Whoo hoo. Means I'd be hard-pressed to find a guy that's shorter than me. :o
Man, that sucks :- I'm 5'3" which is pretty damn short for a guy.. so like 95% of the girls I know are taller than me.. oh well, I'll always have a career as a jockey or a Napoleon impersonator.
Kuky
May 12th, 2002, 06:59 PM
*stands on a chair and pats Kuky on the head*
There, there, boy. :o
*grumbles about tall people*
where did you find that 4 foot stool yuo're standing on? :lol: :mrgreen:
SShore4
May 12th, 2002, 08:11 PM
I'm 5' 8''. I'll usu. only date girls that are shorter than me.
dulcinea
May 12th, 2002, 08:16 PM
Man, that sucks :- I'm 5'3" which is pretty damn short for a guy.. so like 95% of the girls I know are taller than me.. oh well, I'll always have a career as a jockey or a Napoleon impersonator.
Heh, if I had a dollar for every wiseass that said, "So, are you going to be a jockey when you grow up?" I could retire right now. :P
As it is, my height is a source of many not-so-affectionate nicknames. Midget, Mini-Midget (I don't get it, really), Dwarf, Shorty, Girl Who Gets Handicapped Parking (apparently, if I were legally a midget, which some think I am, I would be eligible for handicapped parking)... and my personal favourite, Leprechaun.
My 6'3" guitar player cannot have a conversation with me for more than five minutes without making at least one short joke. It usually results in him being punched. :P
-=AznPride=-
May 12th, 2002, 08:51 PM
heh well im about 6ft even now... so its not so bad :wink:
rcwant2be
May 12th, 2002, 09:18 PM
I'm 5'8" and i have a strong preference for guys who are about my height. 6'0" is borderline too tall. i just like the whole being eye-to-eye with them when dancing or whatever else. recently tho, i was attracted to a guy who was 6'8". talk about big boy! wow. that was weird for me. now i'm back to old standby, faithful friend, boy toy, brian who's 5'11" (if he's lucky) & he's PERFECT!
PurpleObsidian
May 12th, 2002, 09:24 PM
Somewhere around my height (5'8") or shorter...I'm not that bothered really :P
Asphodelle13
May 12th, 2002, 10:43 PM
I always liked taller guys, though it never mattered much to me anyway...since I'm only 5'5 and often like to wear shoes that make me 5'8 or taller. :P ..my height or taller for a guy is kewl with me...height shouldn't really matter to anyone unless you have two extremes, like a girl that's 5'2 and a guy that's 6'4, that would definetely make kissing more difficult hehe...but like ckgirl said, you feel protected or something when he's a bit taller..its like more romantic that way ya know. :)
jack\'s internet persona
May 12th, 2002, 11:22 PM
I'm 6'1" or 6'2". Somewhere in there. I am probably going to grow two more inches though, which I'm not sure I like. I like being this height though, because it gives a sense of power when you do something, and it makes walking down a crowded high school hallway a hell of a lot easier. People tend to get out of the way if they are smaller than you.
Other peoples height doesn't bother me, as long as the girl isn't freakishly tall (read 7' 6"), but I guess that's because most girls are shorter than me anyway. Actually, I know at least one girl who is about an inch taller than me that I find attractive.
lavalamp69
May 12th, 2002, 11:24 PM
You're a guy? what? Noo.. so confusing??
BigJim
May 12th, 2002, 11:34 PM
6'3"
my g/f's 5'8"
not a bad combination.
zoe
May 13th, 2002, 12:58 AM
I'm 5'5". My boyfriend has got to be 6'4" now, and he's still growing. I remember the days when I could look him in the eyes, when we were standing up, without my neck getting a cramp. I feel shorter and shorter every day.. :(
I prefer tall guys, even though lots of things are difficult when you're short, and the guy is nearly a foot taller than you :o
moonangel
May 13th, 2002, 09:23 AM
Yes, because I'm fucking tall, and there aren't that many guys taller than me, and when I have a bf whose shorter I get shit hung on me ...
Lauren112285
May 13th, 2002, 10:47 PM
*stands on a chair and pats Kuky on the head*
There, there, boy. :o
*grumbles about tall people*
where did you find that 4 foot stool yuo're standing on? :lol: :mrgreen:
<span style='color:blue'> :lol: That was really funny!
Anyway, like other's said I like a guy who is taller than me, I'm about 5'4"/5'5" so it really isn't that big of a problem. And I agree with CKgirl and Hallow...something about hugging a taller guy makes you feel 'protected' :mrgreen: </span>
dulcinea
May 13th, 2002, 11:04 PM
where did you find that 4 foot stool yuo're standing on? :lol: :mrgreen:
Yeah, yeah.
*gets off of chair*
*kicks as high as she can, hitting Kuky in the knees* :P
pandoragoddess
May 13th, 2002, 11:45 PM
i'm 5'6" and a half and my boyfriend is 5'11" so i find that perfect. :)
but i prefer guys who are at least two inches taller than me, although i would date someone shorter if i were attracted to them both physically and emotionally. :)
miz erotika
May 13th, 2002, 11:52 PM
I'm 5 feet, height really isn't an issue w/ me.
indigold
May 14th, 2002, 11:50 AM
I'm a shorty so height doesn't really matter to me. There are hardly any guys shorter than me (around my age at least) so I don't have to worry about that. But if a 7-foot guy liked me and he had a great personality then I would go for it.
dulcinea
May 14th, 2002, 05:45 PM
I'm a shorty so height doesn't really matter to me. There are hardly any guys shorter than me (around my age at least) so I don't have to worry about that. But if a 7-foot guy liked me and he had a great personality then I would go for it.
Heh, I used to have a minor crush on a friend of mine who stands approximately a foot and seven inches taller than me. 6'6". We danced together at Homecoming once. That was very funny to watch, I'd imagine.
super_chevy2000
May 14th, 2002, 11:13 PM
I'm 5'9" so I prefer someone at least my height. Preferably an inch or two (if not more) taller than me.
Danae
May 15th, 2002, 04:40 PM
I'm 5'7 or 5'8...I can't remember hehe... and all of my boyfriends have been shorter than me. I think the shortest was 5'4. It wasn't really that big of a deal although my ideal guy would be taller than me....6ft and higher is nice. I like to feel like he could protect me or something, not vice versa :P
rcwant2be
May 15th, 2002, 05:01 PM
dulci & lava...I'm jealous. when i was little i wanted to be a jockey when i grew up, but then i grew up & now i'm too big. I just went to the kentucky derby. awesome. imagine being in control of all that power. i'm jealous of both of you!
dulcinea
May 15th, 2002, 10:47 PM
dulci & lava...I'm jealous.
Heh, there's nothing to be jealous of, at least in my case. I can't say I speak for Lava as well :P.
Think of the negatives- being called "midget" on a daily basis, having other people use your head as an armrest, having a helluva time playing any musical instruments because your hands are tiny like the rest of ya, having people think you're twelve when you're actually eighteen, having to pull the seat all the way forward just to drive and still sometimes not being able to quite reach the pedals, sitting there in class while your feet fall asleep because they don't reach the floor from your chair... welcome to my world. :o
waiting_on_an_angel
May 16th, 2002, 01:54 PM
I'm 5'7" and while I wouldn't not date someone because he was shorter than me, I prefer as tall or taller guys. There's just something about being able to put my head on his chest or nuzzled in his neck when we hug, so I feel totally engulfed in him that's pretty darn nice.
Scarlet Phlox
May 16th, 2002, 11:51 PM
I'm 5'3", so height isn't a huge issue for me. I rarely come across guys who are shorter than I am. It's more of a problem with tall guys....there's that whole neck-craning thing. That's kind of uncomfortable. 5'8" is about the right height, give or take a couple inches.
Peaches18
May 17th, 2002, 01:49 AM
well i am 5'2 - 5'3 and my bf is 6 ft or close to it. i love it when i have a guy who is taller than me. ive had one shorter than me....it didnt last and one my height and that wasnt too bad. the bad thing about my bf is when we dance i feel bad cuz he has to kinda bend over. id like it if i was tall enough to whee he didnt have to bend as much.
*pOpuLaR~pRiNcEsS*
May 17th, 2002, 02:01 PM
Man, that sucks :- I'm 5'3" which is pretty damn short for a guy.. so like 95% of the girls I know are taller than me.. oh well, I'll always have a career as a jockey or a Napoleon impersonator.
Not trying to sound mean here, but how old are you? I heard that guys usually hit puberty at 17,18 or even 20 (a little later than we girls). So don't worry too much.
Anyway, I'm 5'5" and would be 5'9" in heels or platform shoes, not too short I guess. Heehee... I don't know why, but I'm attracted to tall guys, they're so appealing and sexy to me. My ex is 5'11" and the one I'm dating at the moment is about 6'1" or taller. Heehee... you know, the way they walk and the way they dress and some other tiny little things make me soooo addicted to tall guys (not too thin or too fat though). :evil2:
lavalamp69
May 17th, 2002, 04:44 PM
Not trying to sound mean here, but how old are you? I heard that guys usually hit the puberty at 17,18 or even 20 (a little later than we girls). So don't worry too much.
Lol.. the thought of a guy hitting puberty at 20 is well.. funny. Anyway, 17, 18? That's still off.. Unless by 'hit'.. you mean 'wrap up'.. and most guys usually finish around 18-20. But guys on average usually start in middle school..
Ah ok, enough of lavalamp's sex-ed. class.
Anyway, I'm 15.. and I do have another growth spurt or two to hit.. but I doubt I'll be taller than 5'6"-ish... besides, that doesn't change the fact I'm still short now.
dulcinea
May 18th, 2002, 10:27 AM
Hey Lava- if it's any consolation, when my dad was your age (heh, why I did I think you were way older than that?), he was 4'9" and briefly wrestled in the 85-pound weight class before becoming a band geek :P. Anyway, he's 5'6" now, so there's hope for all of ya. :o
I think what she means is that, while girls tend to only have a fairly brief growth spurt when they first hit puberty, a lot of guys just keep on growing until they're, like, 20. Hell, my freaking "growth spurt" was slightly less than an inch and a half.
the Music Man
May 19th, 2002, 06:53 PM
I'm about 5 inches or so taller than my gf but man I wish I was about 6'8" (I'm 5'10") I don't know why, but I would love to be really tall and such. :mrgreen:
TimeToPlayTheGame
May 27th, 2002, 02:09 AM
Unless it's at an extreme on either end of the scale (4' & under or 6'6" & over - for a female) then height doesn't matter to me. I can still remember the day in middle school when I asked out this girl Lisa and she said to my face that she wouldn't go out with me 'cause I was too short. I wouldn't want to do that to someone. Btw, I used to be short (4'6"-5' in middle school) but I am between 5'9"-5'11".
Stratocaster
June 1st, 2002, 07:49 PM
Well I tend to find tall men sexy, but it certainly doesn't exclude shorter guys. Some of my biggest crushes have been on teensy, wee, small guys (which is a ruddy good thing, since I'm not exactly a skyscraper myself)!
jungAH
June 2nd, 2002, 04:12 AM
Hmm... yah, i'm like 5'6", and my ex is the same, so i never could wear any high shoes around him or it just was awkward... i prefer taller guys, sure, but i don't mind shorter... taller's nice cuz then they're so much easier to hug and rest heads on... and their hugs feel better too :)
LuckyRiverJordan
June 2nd, 2002, 07:32 PM
i'm 5'3 and its hard to find a guy that is shorter than me. I like wearing heels (when i have the time..mostly i wear flipflops) and i wouldn't mind dating someone the same height as me. The ideal height for me is 5'8 because you can put on heels and look him in the eye, and you can "get down" from your post and rest your head on his shoulder.
dulcinea
June 2nd, 2002, 09:44 PM
Dude, Jordan, I think that 5'8" is the "perfect" height too... probably because I had a mad thing once for this guy who was 5'8", and anything we did... I never felt like he was too tall, it wasn't hard on my neck to hug him or something :P
jungAH
June 3rd, 2002, 12:25 AM
Dude, Jordan, I think that 5'8" is the "perfect" height too... probably because I had a mad thing once for this guy who was 5'8", and anything we did... I never felt like he was too tall, it wasn't hard on my neck to hug him or something :P
or something... like kiss him ^.^ yah, 5'8" is niiiice indeed
JessiMari
June 3rd, 2002, 12:38 AM
My bf is a lil shorter than me...just a lil.....he's like around my eyes...I really don't care about size...I mean I wouldn't like to date a guy that was extremely shorter than me...I don't think any girl would...My parents always tease me about it...Eh who cares....I love him that way... :D
Raptor
June 4th, 2002, 12:56 PM
i've decided - i wanna grow another 2 inchs - i wanna be 6'2''!
jungAH
June 4th, 2002, 03:27 PM
6'2"! Wow, and I woulda thunk six foot flat was durn high enough... haha... Hmm, never dated anybody that tall, prolly cuz not too many guys around here ARE that tall... but I know hugging them is fun.... ^.^
*tries Raptor out for size* (har har... get it? :roll:)
*pOpuLaR~pRiNcEsS*
June 4th, 2002, 03:31 PM
i've decided - i wanna grow another 2 inchs - i wanna be 6'2''!
6'2"? :o
Raptor
June 5th, 2002, 06:59 AM
yeah all the cool ppl are 6'2''! MY best friend is, i feel small next to him. Will Smith is lol. Plus u can get greast muscle definition when ure 6'2'' I'm only a messly 6'!
jungAH
June 5th, 2002, 08:33 AM
why so tall... MEASLY 6', huh? Haha... that must make me a midget or summat (you're the only other person I've met who uses that word!). So you don't think you're toned enough cuz you're lacking two inches? Ee... craziness~
Raptor
June 5th, 2002, 09:44 AM
how tall r u?
no what i meant was, i dont like to look completely bulked up - skinny, but musclar (ideally like will smith in independance day :lol: )
but when ure taller, u can have more strength with the same definition, coz obviously eg ure arms are longer, if ya get what i mean
kerrielouise
June 8th, 2002, 07:21 PM
i'm 5ft9 or 10, i'd like to be 5ft7 'cos then i could get away with wearing high heels. when wearing high heels now, i feel like everyone is looking at me.
it's weird 'cos all through primary school i was the tallest, and it's only now, in yr11 (just doing my gcse's) that everyone is catching up. it's really cool 'cos all the lads i know are taller than me!! woohooo! i hate being the tallest :lol:
i like guys that are either the same height as me or a few inches taller but i don't mind that much.
kerrie
--x--
Raptor
June 9th, 2002, 06:37 AM
so how can i grow another 2 inches then? i really wanna!
dulcinea
June 10th, 2002, 06:40 PM
Try using the rack.
seriously now, if you're a guy, you've probably still some growing to do. Me, I've been stuck at 4'11" since the seventh grade. So I don't wanna hear your complaining about how you're not tall enough or can't grow. :lol: :P
Truth
June 10th, 2002, 06:47 PM
i was never tall, but maybe cause my back got screwed up during weight training back in highschool. Realisitically I should be 5'9" but I am only a measly 5'7 1/2"...to to tall, not to short, but for me I wish I were a little bit taller, I wish I were a baller
ShRt SwEEt*n*SexY
June 10th, 2002, 10:09 PM
well i'd hopr the guy would be taller since i'm only 5' but if i was taller i don't think it owuld matter either my b/f is 6'1 and it's not a problem.
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