How do you feel about Getting Physical during Menstruation?

[super_chevy2000]

How do you guys feel about fooling around or even intercourse during you gf's period. Is it discusting, okay or does it not bother you to have sexual intercourse or fooling around while she is on. Also does it bother you or make you feel embarrassed for your girl to talk to you about it.
A friend of mine has a bf that thinks that time of the month is discusting and it embarrasses him bad so I just wanted to know everyone's opinion. Thanks ahead for the responses.

[Brass Monkey]

I personally have no problem with any of it. It is something that because of my last girlfriend that I have become comfortable with. We even had sex a couple of times while she was on her period. It really wasn't any different....but I suggest using a condom if you normally don't. The only thing that you can't really do is finger her directly or give her oral.

I don't find it disgusiting at all. I just prefer not to see it or have her talk about it more than its necessairy.

[Commander]

There's a show called "Off Centre" that had an episode about this..

The girl had the house all to herself and invited her boyfriend to stay the time that her roommates were gone.. she was horny because she was on her period.. well he found out and couldn't even go through with it.

I personally don't see anything so gross about it.. I'd use a condom but come on.. girls are really horny at this time.. quit being so selfish and let her experience something good. :D hehe

I'd say every guy should try it once.. if requested by his girlfriend, and then he can decide if it's gross or not.

[Am I tight or not?]

does it make me a weirdo/freak if I say the idea of sex during her period actually turns me on? :mrgreen:

[BigJim]

there is a good archive post about this.

take a look at it (http://rf.thedesigneng.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=652)

[Fairy Princess]

i was gonna start a new topic about this, but i noticed this post, so its a good thing i didnt, but i was just wondering, for those of you who have done it during that time, does it get pretty messy??? if so, what do you, throw down an old sheet or something??
(im probably gonna get laughed at for this, but im still a virgin so i wouldnt know, give me a break & just give a straight answer.) Im just wondering....

[goofball]

don't mind having sex in the least bit

oral sex, however, is absolutely disgusting.

[kuju]

agreed with goofball, oral sex is disgusting when she's on her period.

But you'll often find that guys actually don't mind it as much as girls. I'm not too fond of it myself, though i've only tried it twice. if it's a light period, then there's minimal mess, but things can get bad if it's heavy.

[Barefoot Matt]

I have no problem with it whatsoever (except oral, yuck). it's my girlfriend that has the problem. she's very uncomfortable with it, for whatever reason. it's not like a period is unnatural or anything, so I don't see why she's embarressed :-?. maybe she just doesn't want to make a mess :lol:

[eqtie]

obviously im a gurl,and i dont like the idea at all its not just that it would be so messy, it just grosses me out, im surprised at how many guys here wouldnt mind it

[Deidre]

I have no problem with it whatsoever (except oral, yuck). it's my girlfriend that has the problem. she's very uncomfortable with it, for whatever reason. it's not like a period is unnatural or anything, so I don't see why she's embarressed :-?. maybe she just doesn't want to make a mess :lol:

Or she doesn't want to make you feel embarassed/grossed out.

I can see why a girl wouldn't want to do anything sexual with her boyfriend during her period... it's a bloody mess (bad pun intended -I haven't slept for 5 days... never mind me). I know that he's never done that, so if he wanted to, he might not know what it's actually like, and I'd rather not have him feel awkward like that... so when I'm on my period I prefer to just give.
...I'll always have time to recieve some other time.

[super_chevy2000]

My bf and I have sex while I'm on my period and neither one of us have a problem with it but my friend's guy doesn't even want to hear the word period because it embarrasses him so bad. My bf and I feel that there is nothing to be embarrassed about because it's a natural part of life.

[nicruns]

i dont mind it.... its actually better for me during my period. though it does get messy and sometimes i am bloated and not in the mood :roll:

[Tootsie Pop]

I had intercourse once duing my period. (it was after those morning after pills..) so i wasnt expecting it but soon found out that I had it after he was all excited. Once we found, he still wanted to do it, and I was really uncomfortable. But we did it anyway, and he says he would have no problem with doing it again. Sometimes the girl is more grossed out than the guy is.

[JohnSmith]

i wouldn't have that big of a problem, i mean it would prob. be a little yuck... but whatever :)

[princess]

i wouldnt want to have sex while on my period...

i mean ive never had sex - but i dont like fooling around while im on it and definetly don't think i'd want to have sex while on it.

[HeaVeN-ly]

Hmm... I dunno. That one time my bf said he wanted to try something new... He said why not try fingering while I'm having my period (we haven't had sex yet) because he's really curious and all. Well, let's say I wasn't that pleased to say the least, I mean even ME myself won't even dare touch myself around that area during my period. It's erm, gross. But, then, we fooled around and I just sorta got carried away, and damn, it wasn't that bad....! He seems totally ok and all (I expected him to faint/puke or something)... Hahahha but then, I suppose if you're totally comfortable with your partner, anything is possible :devious: But be prepared for the mess tho, but I don't encourage it when it's really heavy, it helps to wait maybe 2-3 days after...

[Lone Wolf]

does it make me a weirdo/freak if I say the idea of sex during her period actually turns me on? :mrgreen:


you're a weirdo anyway, so don't worry!!! :mrgreen:

As for the topic... I don't really know... I don't think it's particularly gross, though I have to admit I don't know how much they bleed, but as long as it's less than what came out of my reopened cut (shit... imagine waking up and your bed is one big blood splatter - ok, actually it IS cool, but in the moment you reaaaaaaaaaaally wonder - then you go to the mirror and wonder again... now am I weird that I love having bloody patterns on my face??? :devious: )

[benciti19]

Sex on her period....yes please! It's wetter! If youre that worried about making a mess....have sex in the shower!

[EaCS]

No problem with it, apart from as others have said, oral.

[ChannyJB7]

ok well i m not a guy..but my b/f (well now my ex) seemed 2 have no problem with it..but then again the times he did it i was either at the very beginning or very end so it was pretty light.....but it was kind of weird cuz one time he got a finger print on one of his books after...and another time he looked at my pants and was like umm...what's that...it was kinda embarassing..but hey i have no problem as long as he ain't grossed out :devious:

[Wild N Crazy]

i wouldn't want to. i'd be too worried about what he's thinking or whats going thru his mind. i dont really like even fooling around heavily while on it cuz i dont like being a tease to him cuz i'd know id stop him before it would get too far just because of the fact that i'm on it

[*after8*]

i was alwayz SO against this whole having sex-while-on-your-period thing. always so anti-that. i thought i could never want sex that bad while i was on it, i feel all sick and bloated and just not in the mood. but then one nite, about a month or two ago, i was over at my bfs house, and we were all making out and stuff, and he got me mmm so turned on..
..and i wanted ta just fuck him right then, and he wanted to too, and then i told him we couldn't cose it was 'that time of the month'

he was dissapointed, as was i, and after a few minutes he asks me "are you shore we cant??"
hehee
and i told him it was up ta him, i wanted to, but i was leaving it completely up to him.
....since it was up to him, we did.. and it wasn't that bad.
he wore a condom, and yeah it wassss alittle messy, but other than that it was completly fine. i didnt feel sick at all during.

[Sydney123456]

I'm a chick...but, if it's that time of the month, I don't LET the guy touch me there. I don't mind making out and stuff like that...but nothing below the waist cause that's a little disgusting.

And...I jsut flat out tell them, that we can play like that...and they get it. They don't give me a weird or disgusted look. Not like we have hour long conversations about my period...but, they are smart and mature guys.