blue balls

[piglet]

Ok I looked in the archive, sue me if this was there and I missed it...BUT

what exactly are blue balls? I know that it has something to do with a guy being hard and not cumming.....

The reason I ask is that my bf and I were messing around last night and I knew he had a boner but he obviously didn't cum and I was soooo worried that I gave him blue balls but he said he was fine....so help me out here cuz I'm always worried about this.

[Deidre]

Some say it's a "legend".. others claim it happens. Oh well, the idea is that there's a semen build up in the testicles that needs to be released after a certain point, and then it isn't, they get "full" and can't go back, really, and they hurt and turn a slightly bluish tint. That's what they say, anyway... from what I gather it's more often than not an excuse to get a girl to go further.

[Crash Override]

The term "blue balls" is highly inaccurate...the scrotum actually turns QUITE red, when one is afflicted with blue balls.

YES, it IS a real condition, but it shouldn't be used as an excuse for you to go further with a guy.
He can always go home and masturbate, curing the condition quite rapidly.

Anyway, it's UNBELIEVABLY painful, and certainly is real.

[Raskal]

1 word....OUCH! but crash is right....dont go farther with a guy jsut cuz your worried about it...hope that helps! :)

[Shocka]

I disagree. 100% BS. It doesn't exist, just another patriachal manipulation tool.

*DANCE!!!*

[BigJim]

actually bil once blue balls occurs, either sex or self-relief does NOT rapidly cure it. trust me from one that's suffered it on several occasions, it takes quite a while to go away.

[super_chevy2000]

I believe that it is an actual condition but like someone else in here said, don't let that influence whether you go farther, just because you're worried about hurting him.

[Mooch]

I disagree. 100% BS.

It's never happened to me...and I've certainly been in situations where it ought to have, if it is as people say.

[Inverted Saint]

It happens to some people and not others. I suppose it's like the rumored "female ejaculation"... Just because it hasn't happened to you doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

And, depending on how "worked up" you are will depend on how long the problem takes to go away.

[Kemoish]

Okay... let me clarify this a bit. If you are jacking off a guy and STOP BEFORE HE CUMS yes...that is quite uncomfortable, I readily admit that. I think that when people refer to blue balls, it's when the girls stops RIGHT as he is cumming (had it happen and oh my god... I think castrating myself with a dull butterknife is less painful...and the pain lasts for quite some time) At least that's how it happened to me. My g/f has stopped numerous times in the middle of jacking me off and it hurt, but I didn't get these so called 'blue balls'

[~Fanta~]

I asked my bf about it once, and he said that it never happened to him, but i heard others say it did, so i don't know whether it's real or not..

[SoSweetAngel]

I asked my bf about it once, and he said that it never happened to him, but i heard others say it did, so i don't know whether it's real or not..

Same here. He says it's not really true, but he's always joking about it, saying that I have to have sex with him cos he'll get blue balls!

But enough people say it' real...I guess it's an affliction that doesn't affect everyone.

[LaRêveuse]

Yeah I was worried about not being able to give my boyfriend an orgasm the other day, he said there was no problem. It wasn't going to hurt. Apparently it varies from guy to guy. :-?

[Klounn]

Okay... let me clarify this a bit. If you are jacking off a guy and STOP BEFORE HE CUMS yes...that is quite uncomfortable, I readily admit that. I think that when people refer to blue balls, it's when the girls stops RIGHT as he is cumming (had it happen and oh my god... I think castrating myself with a dull butterknife is less painful...and the pain lasts for quite some time) At least that's how it happened to me. My g/f has stopped numerous times in the middle of jacking me off and it hurt, but I didn't get these so called 'blue balls'

isn't that what blue balls is?!?!?!

i got it once, i didn't want the mess so i stopped before cumming, OUCH, never do it again... had to take a day off of school cuz i couldn't walk... try explaining THAT to your parents :lol:

[Mooch]

But enough people say it' real...I guess it's an affliction that doesn't affect everyone.

well, I'm glad it doesn't affect me then! :D

[Lone Wolf]

actually bil once blue balls occurs, either sex or self-relief does NOT rapidly cure it. trust me from one that's suffered it on several occasions, it takes quite a while to go away.

BigJim's right... it's similar to the pain you feel some time after you've been hit in the balls (not wearing a protection after one year of martial arts tends to masochism... :mrgreen: ).

...and "self-relief" ( :mrgreen: ) actually hurts.


Lone Wolf