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[Ingwood]

Hi to those who remember me,
I was on here a while back I was a loser with women and sadly nothings changed, Ive had more than my fair share of downs since then.
I was just wondering if anyone has any good advice for me in getting/and being successful with women, without coming across too desperate?

[Trixy5234]

As odvious as my answer may be, just be confident. Confidence is key...women love that. It can make any guy far more appealing.

[chiukit]

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[Lone_Raider]

Hi to those who remember me,
I was on here a while back I was a loser with women and sadly nothings changed, Ive had more than my fair share of downs since then.
I was just wondering if anyone has any good advice for me in getting/and being successful with women, without coming across too desperate?

Hi welcome back first of all. Your post doesn't say much about what your problems are exactly or what's happening. So if you feel up to it, why don't you post what's been happening with women and maybe we can help.

The only thing I can pick out of your post is that you do lack some confidence stating that your are a loser (you have to stop thinking that or eventually your will believe it) and that you might be acting a bit desperately. Removing desperation usually involves you having more than one interest in life. For example, if all you want is a girl and have no other activities or interests, you will probably pursue the girl and be to clingy and drive her away. So make sure you do other things besides school or work so that you have a life of your own. This will help you remove all your attention from a single woman.

[JHXMT]

What Lone Raider said. To stop being a 'loser with women' (a bad, bad label to assign to yourself, by the way), stop valuing yourself based on how good you are with them.

In other words, stop focussing on your 'problems' and they will go away. Focus on all aspects of your life and not only will you feel better about yourself, other people will too.